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I'm curious if any of you still use anything other than fediverse. Since discovering it last year I've deleted all my non fedi social media, and it feels great!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Nope.

Tried the big two didn't get anything out of it.

Dropped Reddit during the big storm.

I'm fine with things as they are now.

The lower amount of content on Lemmy is balanced by the increased quality and the fact I can't spend all day on here

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same here. Had it all back in the day but gradually ended up winding everything else but Lemmy down. These days I stick to RSS and Lemmy. Good balance of quality content and entertainment.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Share your RSS feeds with us.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

The lower amount of content on Lemmy is balanced by the increased quality and the fact I canโ€™t spend all day on here

This is easily one of the greatest aspects of the fediverse for me so far; Reddit seemed great at first, when all of its content and communities were new to me, and as it gradually got more familiar and filtered and fine-tuned through my own activity, I noticed that I'd been just scrolling the thing mindlessly, aimlessly, hoping to experience something good, have a nice laugh, a nice read, just anything - ultimately wasting dozens of minutes, sometimes hours, with nothing but a sad sigh as a result.

Browsing Lemmy is a genuinely fun activity for a relatively short amount of time a couple of times a day max, always having a good time thanks to its quality and always having nice conversations because it's the culture so far, and never scrolling through endless equally poorly-thought-out posts or comments because even if there are any, they're few and far between.

I think I say the same things whenever I get to praise the fediverse in general and Lemmy in particular, but I just can't help myself.

[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I used reddit and discord. Now I use lemmy and discord and occasionally mastodon but I dislike the format.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I didn't like twitter before so I didn't really get into mastodon

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Nope. I will never use centralised social media again. Too many years exposed to social media that just doesn't give a shit about the welfare of its users

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

LinkedIn for job shit only. I donโ€™t like follow and comment and shit. I donโ€™t really get the whole point.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The point is to network and make yourself look very successful and likable, a great lover or humanity, one of the best in your field but yet the most humble and grateful for all things that happen in your life... :)

You regularly post obvious uplifting quotes to your peers, who likes them and writes little comments back about how true that quote is, hoping to be promoted the next time there is a company reorg.

I can't stand it. :)

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

hoping to be promoted the next time there is a company reorg

Surely this is just ass kissers liking and commenting on the bosses weird ass linked in ego trip?

Is anyone liking and commenting peer's linked in stuff thinking that'll score them a promotion? Why would the company care about this?

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Where I have worked, try company arranges events at work, like cooking something, or some mystery game, and then takes pictures of that and posts on linkedin. Then they ask employees to comment and say how fun it was.

It's just HR marketing disguised as something else.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I too loathe LinkedIn, but have to use it. To make myself feel better, I spend an equal amount of time on shlinkedin afterwards.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Same bro ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Reddit, Twitter, BlueSky. Does Discord count as social media?

There's something insular and self-righteous about the fediverse so I'll never only use it. But lemmy is pretty great.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Discord and Tumblr.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Since Musk bought Twitter I've been more active on Tumblr and as long as you don't go anywhere that takes itself too seriously, it's actually refreshing and lovely.

Similarly, when I signed up for Bluesky I decided I'd only follow people I know IRL and artists, and to not be afraid to use the mute or block, and it's been great. Just a steady stream of art and people discussing art.

I've also got Mastodon, Pillowfort, and Cohost accounts I never really use.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

YouTube+discord

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

All of them. If a social media site exists, I'm on it. I have the world record for the most sites having signed up for.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Discord until I find a reasonable alternative

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

YouTube, Reddit, Twitter and Pixelfed

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I have a bluesky account because several twitter friends went over there. I barely use it because my mastodon feed is a lot more interesting.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Not really. I have an Instagram account I haven't truly used in years but that's about it

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Mastodon and Instagram(To chat with friends) For contacting I use Matrix, XMPP, Telegram and IRC.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, one beside Lemmy out of necessity. There is this app called LINE that started as a humble instant messaging service to serve as a communication aid during the Tohoku Earthquake in Japan. Now it tries to be everything: payment, shopping, interest groups, food ordering, ride calling, music, news, loaning money, etc.

I only use the LINE core function to get by every day, because everyone around me is using it, casually and professionally. My country is using it for everything, even in governmental affairs. It's however only very popular in Japan, Taiwan, Indonesia, and Thailand, where I reside. There are theories regarding why it is so popular in those countries, but one I believe is its "cuteness" functionality, where you can send "stickers" to each other, something like an elaborated emoji.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Youtube and check IG like once a week

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got rid of pretty much all social media. Since this is anonymous I don't really think of it as "social media" the same way I would Facebook or Twitter. The only other thing I have is an Instagram account under a fake name that I just use to follow a few celebrities and craft profiles and look at women trying to promote their OnlyFans accounts lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

anonymous

Pseudonomous, not anonymous.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I tried screaming the latest r/new posts on the subway but I got stabbed. No more social media outside for me.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Not really. I watch YouTube videos with Invidious and yt-dlp, I lurk Reddit through RedReader, and I occasionally lurk Twitter through Nitter (but only very briefly). Lemmy is the only social media that I actively partake/interfere in.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I use Facebook daily since most of my friends are still on it (it's still pretty commonly used in Australia) and there's some groups that are more active than the equivalent communities on Lemmy.

I'm on YouTube daily too. It's still the place to find most video creators and there's not really a good alternative yet. I've been using it forever so their algorithm understands what types of videos I like.

I have an Instagram but rarely use it. My last post was maybe 5 years ago. I just use it to watch reels my wife sends to me.

I still have my Twitter account but only visit it maybe once every week or two. Same with Reddit.

Not on Discord or Tiktok.

I like long form discussion, which is why I prefer Lemmy and Facebook over Mastodon and Twitter.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I have a Facebook account still. Mainly to communicate with different groups that I'm a part of in real life. If it wasn't for that I would delete it. My wife still has an instagram account and so I have one that I've never posted to just because sometimes she uses the stories feature to share short little fun recordings of the kids and so I want to be able to back them up since they don't get saved on device by default. I have linked-in for professional reasons but I literally on ever log in to update my resume.

I deleted twitter and reddit back in June.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Only discord

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit and Discord. I have Facebook but barely use it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I was all set to scrap my Facebook account as I never used it anymore. Then when I starting posting daily to [email protected], I basically set it up as a news feed for 50+ animals rescues to get me content.

I think my last post on Facebook other than responding to birthday wishes was 2 years ago.

The algorithm was recommending me a lot of crap for a long time, but lately it's gotten better actually.

It's still a pain to use, but for many rescues, it's the only way to get daily news about them, so I use it more than ever now, but I'm not contributing anything back into it, other than hopefully increasing traffic to the rescues.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Actually, no. It's just here and mastodon

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm thinking i need too, it seems to be a massive echo chamber on all the news and political communities.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

subscribe to what you like, block what you donโ€™t, sort by subscribed. Problem solved.

I think people forget that when they are browsing the equivalent of โ€œallโ€œ that they are guests in communities that others have subscribed to. Itโ€™s not their job to change for you and if you donโ€™t like whatโ€™s going on, you can simply filter them out. Thatโ€™s why we have subscriptions in the first place.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I still use redirects to visit Reddit (I don't bother if they don't work), mainly because one of the main communities I track didn't really move here.
Does Youtube count? That's pretty much the only other thing I could think of.

[โ€“] stormio 1 points 1 year ago

I consider myself a dual citizen of Lemmy and Reddit. The Fediverse is great, but you can't beat the massive user base of centralized/corporate social media platforms. Too often, I find interesting discussions on Reddit and not Lemmy, but the reverse is rarely true.

[โ€“] GreatBlueHeron 1 points 1 year ago

Yep - I use Facebook and Instagram regularly. I spend a lot of time in both tapping on "hide this" or "show less of this" or "report and block user", but I find it worth it for the interactions with some like minded people in hobby related groups. I'm aware of the privacy implications, but I figure I've been there for so long there's not much more for them to learn about me. I use ad and tracker blocking to slow them down a little.