I’m very nearly 39, we’ve got two kids (16 & 13). We rent a townhouse and there’s no possibility (barring some windfall ) of buying a house in the next 5 years for sure but maybe not for a longer time.
Just in the last ~4 months we’ve started making enough where we have a little left over at the end of the month. My partner will be going back to school to get a masters so that will probably go back to not much left over for the next ~3 years.
In a world that seems to get more expensive faster that we can make more money it doesn’t feel worth the extra stress to try and save right now.
If you find yourself in a similar situation how do you think about retirement or home ownership? Have you given up? I’m having a tough time stomaching the idea of living even tighter now so I can maybe have a retirement.