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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (13 children)

Got confirmation on my official moving day. I'm off on the 18th. Officially, my bed here closed on the 20th, so I'll have an extra 2 days. But they agreed to get a removalist for me to take my bed and dresser, and they're coming on the 18th

Sorted out of all the utilities, I think. Internet proved the most difficult, because just about every single company had rules about being over 18, and when I went through NBNCo's terms and conditions, it even seems to be an NBN requirement as opposed to just a telco thing. But my phone provider, Amaysim, recently launched NBN services too, and don't stipulate an age requirement anywhere in the ToS, just that if they need to rewire anything, an adult must be present. Power and gas were easy enough, I had to do it over the phone, and only got to choose from 1 company that would have anything to do with me. I didn't have to do anything about water, I think the agency handled that for me

The department also funds initial transition costs (they're still my legal guardian for another 3 months), so I don't need to pay for my own furniture, appliances, or basic things like cutlery or crockery. Although it's making me nervous that I'm 17 days away from moving in and I don't even own a cup yet. Not critical just yet though, but if it gets dangerously close, I'll just go to Vinnies and buy a couple of things to get by

Knives are a fucking pain in the arse to buy though. I have to get somebody else to buy them for me :/ (also a pretty good example of why I despise blanket laws with no exemptions. I hate constantly feeling like I slip through every crack available and get screwed over by poorly thought out legislation. But that's an example for another time)

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Got a whole lot of household stuff I've been thinking about selling because I'm moving away. Better give them to you. IKEA drill set, hammer and screwdriver set, space heater, baskets and tubs and stools, drawer set on wheels, microwave and pizza oven, etc etc. All those bottles of this and that for cleaning, bleach tablets, sponges, hand soap. The list goes on. Let us know what you don't already have!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

! is our chef leaving Melbourne 😿 (But also if it is for warm and fuzzy feelings, this is good)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Worry not. Beep Beep service will continue from another dimension.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (8 children)

I left Melbourne several Christmases ago (true story, the tickets to Perth were purchased initially to be just a holiday visit), but somehow I'm still here. Think of me as so far west, I'm past Werribee.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Firstly, once again, congrats!!!! Aaaaa! So exciting!! 🀩 I am super stoked for the freedoms and safety that are coming your way.

Secondly, echoing Duenan, if you're comfortable sharing which general area you'll be in I'm sure there's several of us who'd be more than happy to chip in. Shit, I'd have kept aside a bunch more stuff for you when I was moving out. But completely understand if you'd rather keep it quiet

Thirdly - great time to be hitting the op shops, heaps of shit from people moving out at end of semester/landlords selling/etc. There will be mugs galore.

Fourthly... hadn't realised how tricky it would be to set up utilities as an under-18! Not long until that all goes away though? and then you can sign up with whoever you want...

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm down for helping South East Melbourne area if you want it. Got a van.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

If in the north, I have some extra bed linen in good/near new condition. You might as well have it if you want it. Also some extra cooking pots and utensils. Vinnies and similar is good for crockery and eating cutlery. Won't 'match' but who gives a shit when cooking/eating for one only.
Also, if you need a cooking knife etc. I can let you have the picnic knife to tide you over until you can legally buy one to suit you. Or if you wish, I can buy one for you. Let me know by dm.

EDIT: I also have a spare electric kettle in working order.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I’m happy to chip in on some art or nice sheets or something to make it feel homely, if you like - they’ve said they’ll pay for the essentials, but I reckon your first place that’s your own should be somewhere you enjoy being.

You’ve done well, Baku. From here, you’ll only get better.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Do you happen to know what area of Melbourne you’ll be moving to, like north or south?

Maybe some of us can help you with a few things.

Quite a few hoops you have to jump through there but you’ll get it done as you always do.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Same, I have kitchen ware, linens and blankets, etc

Maybe Baku can write out a list and we can see what we all have. πŸ™‚

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

This is good idea. Sort of like a wedding list but a lot more practical.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Oh, also, once I move, I can get a cat! I want to get one soon, but our pet laws are weird about ownership while under 18. I also want to rescue one from a shelter, rather than go through a breeder, and AFAICT, none of them would consider an application from me while I'm under 18, so I'll probably need to wait

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Oh to be a little spicy Pepper cat, on the top rung of a cat tree with one pink toebean. Life is tough.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Went a little overboard with the tree this year myself.

What did my true love get me 4 the 20th day of Christmas?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

God, what an awful day.

My parents came to visit because it's my mum's birthday. We went to a local cafe and the food took ages.

Then, both myself and my girlfriend got sick, probably from what we ate at the cafe.

And then I rolled my ankle as they were leaving, the worst I ever have.

So then I was dealing with two kids, who are fortunately asleep now, and I had to hobble to the toilet whenever the urge took me.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

ALL ASSESSMENTS SUBMITTED

BEER TIME

Edit:

Beer beer the liquid bread
The more you drink the more you're effed!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Had to sort of have 'the talk' with mum last night about hanging up the car keys. Had it before and we agreed only short trips (<2km) in daylight and less regular. Now after this it's completely not safe for everyone. Feels bad, basically taking independence. She brought it up saying in a few days she'll be able to get behind the wheel again so in that sense it wasn't a sit her down and tell her something out of the blue thing.

I think one of harder things here is hearing her say 'in a few days' about a lot of things but the reality is things have changed permanently. In not saying anything when she says that I am giving false hope which I'm not sure is good or bad.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

Ah that's a tough talk mate. Hugs.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

Minipeelers and I made the KitKat Christmas cottage

After the demolition lol

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well, been awhile since Llab was out till almost stumps.

Breeze was gorgeous in the wee hours of the morning in this fine city of ours. Feet are tired, but trekked the CBD without an issue, in fact everyone who was still out just seemed happy.

My ears are dead, but glad I went out.

Reminiscent vibes. Loving it.

Okay. Bed now. ✨

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (9 children)

I spoke with my family tonight. I don't speak with them often (enough). Not that I have a problem with my siblings, or my parents... I love them all.

Got to see the nieces and nephews, and they are all so cute and cool. My siblings seem like fantastic parents.

I wish I was good enough, you know? I'm just a self-isolating depressive I guess. I don't want to bring them all down. Sorry, I guess I'm going to bring you all down instead...

I'm going to keep trying. I have to keep trying.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This place is for supporting each and loving each other

Just know that you are amazing, you are good enough, more than you think! πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We are here and we are listening πŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

This tree has a topper, shall it do?

cat tree with birdie

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Youse have inspired me to put up a Christmas tree. Just can't have it near a door or window is all.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I've never had one before. Fuck it. I'll put one up this year. You've inspired me.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Ooo. I have an idea for you.

One guitar + tinsel = Christmas tree.

Instructions: wrap guitar with tinsel. Stand back and admire your work.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

You know what. Fuck it why not! Less chance of the cat destroying it lol

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

It's feeling like it might be a "pet the cat till i fall asleep" kinda nights.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (5 children)

After much procrastination and resentment I have done the dishes. I HATE DOING DISHES SO MUCH. Especially using gloves and not quite noticing a slight sheen of oil on spoon handles... ugh. Is this my life for the next 24 weeks?!

Seriously considering a second-hand tabletop dishwasher if I can chuck it in the "laundry cupboard" on top of the washing machine... there's extra taps and an extra power outlet... anyone with experience of these?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I reworked my synth setup last night, finally. I have everything plugged in and most things are working, I just need to figure out channels and clock on the Microfreak.

I have two arrangements that work independently, but I should be able to midi them across to share tempo and have them work together if I want to

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Bah!!

I cleaned up too well the other day and packed away something I needed.

Tore the place down last night to no luck so I’ve had to go back to buy it again.

FML

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

House is clean. Now it's me time.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Awesome 😎 I have hit a wall and still have chores. Bad sleep catching up .... Must ... Focus...

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Tree is up. Squashed into a new spot in the living room because while it fit fine last year's spot, we don't spend time there as a family.

First advent calendar drawers are about to be loaded. If not for four days of possible showers on the forecast, it'd almost feel like Christmas.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Goodnight all ❀️

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I put my Christmas cross stitch up on the wall, I'm calling decorating done.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Sorry Seagoon_, yesterday someone had posted a daily a few hours early before yours, so I had to delete one of the two and chose yours to keep as it was closer to the day of the thread.

Didn't mean to make you feel like you had to wait until midnight, I was just explaining why I was deleting the first thread in favour of yours.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Sure. πŸ™‚ And thanks for pinning the threads. 😘

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Thank you for posting the thread πŸ’œπŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

I’ve been looking again at anything I might like to do in my area but honestly… I don’t want to mix. Not here, no.

That’s the entire reason I rely so much on the internet. It’s oddly easier for me to find pockets of decent folks online and there’s less access to me if someone should turn out to be weird or nasty.

Plus some of the groups would require me to come home after dark and yeah nah. I think I’ll just be hanging out with my cat and the DT for the foreseeable future.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (16 children)

Just re-watched Pulp Fiction, and recently saw Once Upon a Time in Hollywood again, and it really does appear that Quentin has a thing for feet

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Hi chores. I don't think so...

Also glad I took my HSP leftovers out of the Styrofoam container and put them on a plate.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (6 children)

If you want to recreate that Christmas Woolies ad where the kids make a pretend giant sparkly carrot and have a lavish Christmas lunch you'll have to shop elsewhere for the time being cos I couldn't even get Cruskits the other day. Lol.

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