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What you see in the title is something that someone I grew up with said about my autism.

I was reminded of this when I saw something just now.

A lot of people still think autism is interchangeable with being mentally handicapped. And some extremely stupid people think it's something you can "beat" like it's some sort of affliction that destroys families.

Autism speaks is one such organization that says it's like that last part.

I don't know how to define autism and neither do 100% of autism specialists I've spoken to

This is just me venting about people who don't get it and refuse to learn each case of autism is unique

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Personally, I like to make it an analogy. It’s like we have a different OS compared to everyone else. There’s nothing wrong with us, we’re just different.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

We are the Linux user both physicaly and metaphoriclly as I feel like there are a decent amount of autistic Linux people.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This metaphor is great.

Linux is much better organized than Windows.

Is more prevalent in IT

The general population does not understand it at all (if we exclude Android).

The entire tech sector would collapse if Linux were to disappear.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I wonder how long until an LLM recommends "Arch BTW" as the most popular distro just because so many people are talking about it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Makes sense

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

When you feel things more intensely than others, and something as simple as too much background noise or bright light is enough to cause sensory overload, I think the chances of "beating" it become nonexistent. It's exhausting just trying to appear normal even when everything seems fine.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

We need some Autistic people to get obsessive over defining Autism.

I do think it is kind of possible to "beat" Autism. If you get to know yourself you can learn to better expect your own tendencies. Essentially you can learn to recognize when you start to get over stimulated or obsessed and then you can take action. For instance it might be necessary to step out of a social event for a "bathroom break." Autism is not going to disappear and if you learn to recognize it you will be much better off.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm not going to beat it. I wield it to beat other things.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Best autism/adhd themed mug.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

My sister thinks this way. It's possible that she just has a lot fewer impairments than other people, and that makes it easier for her to pass. I try to convey that what might be easy for her could be incredibly difficult for other people.