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[–] [email protected] 15 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not sure I know anyone in real life

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

They are all robots and NPCs.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago

That would imply that they know it even exists

[–] [email protected] 10 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Let me stop you before you suggest a narwhal bacons at midnight equivalent for lemmy

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

My spouse. But that's it.

[–] Stalinwolf 13 points 15 hours ago

Nah. My brother, wife, my two best friends and one co-worker are the only ones who even know it exists, and that's because they know I use it as an alternative to reddit since the API fiasco. It's honestly pretty obscure, but I like it that way. I'd love to see larger niche communities, especially since r/stalker was one of the only places I could actively talk about my favorite game series, but Lemmy has been a far better experience overall.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 14 hours ago

There's no way to know

[–] [email protected] 8 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Same. Everyone that i know of that once used Reddit is still over there.

If, for whatever reason, Reddit allows third party apps to be usable again over there like before the fallout then i might go back. But until then i am here.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I don't really miss reddit itself, just the breadth of content that was there

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago

I agree. The Blender community here seems very small in comparison :'(

[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't know a single redditor either, some ppl who had seen my name (my dumbass doxed my full unique name as my username when I was a kid and I didnt change it forever) irl had mentioned it to me, but they didn't use it past google, they weren't posting, commenting, or signing up

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Of course I know him, it's me!.jpg

[–] [email protected] 8 points 14 hours ago (2 children)


"This is the man you are looking for."

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

My immediate meat-space circles are aware of it and have stopped asking me WTH is wrong with my meme links in the group chats.

I do not believe anyone else has an account.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

I've only actively converted one person so far, but there is one other person whom I suspect of using lemmy but have not confirmed.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I don't know anyone besides myself that even uses social media IRL.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

...what? Nobody you know IRL uses Facebook, Linkedin, Insragram, Bluesky, Twitter, or That Google Thing?

How is that possible? I don't think I could find anyone here in Finland who could say what you're saying. Need more data about this case of yours!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's easy to find other Lemmy users IRL. Show up to any Linux meet up, and roughly 5-10% seem to use Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

how do you find Linux meetups?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

Through Lemmy?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Mossheart 150 points 1 day ago (5 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago

Wait, you guys are real people?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

I do not know and will never try to find out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

Probably a couple people but it has never actually come up in conversation. I'll ask next time I see them.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

No, I'd be extremely suspicious of such person.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Bold of you to assume that I know anybody in real life.

[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 day ago (9 children)

I thought we were all bots.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Hmm. I thought I was a paid schill.

Still trying to figure out the getting paid part.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Yes I have been a Lemmy advocate since I joined, but I have only ever gotten one person to use Lemmy. I told one of my daughters friends mom about Lemmy. She does not allow her daughter to use social media. Except for Lemmy.

So that is it. My one conversion. I have kind of given up on trying to convert people. I still love Lemmy and the Fediverse, but the year of Lemmy mainstream has yet to come.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It took 10 years to meet anyone that used Reddit. I assume it's gonna take another 10 to meet anyone on this platform.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Yes my sibling uses Lemmy. It was them that prompted me to join.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

no and i don't think anyone here is real. every account is a russian psyop bot trying to make leftists appear insane and stupid

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Yes. I shared a Star Trek meme with a coworker and they asked me where I got it. I told them about Lemmy and Tenforward and another coworker chimed in with "where every Vulcan knows your name"

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Other way around, I know people in rl through lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Really, this amounts to a question of who has recommended lemmy to others. Which is an interesting question.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I don't like recommending to friends because then they'll ask me what my account is and I prefer to stay anonymous. I feel like I probably have friends that are on Lemmy and haven't shared with me for the same reason tbh.

The worst thing I ever did was get to the front page of Reddit back in 2010 and then all my friends knew my handle forever.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

I considered it when I got my friends to join Reddit ~20 years ago. I made a second account that just posted links to cat pics, no comments. Cute animals are a safe bet.

Bonus, they started sending me cute pictures of their ferrets and dogs that I wish I had backed up beyond a long forgotten flickr

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I do. But despite my best efforts at explaining and advertising this platform, none of my friends seem to care 🥲.

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