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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

So yesterday I was running late for work, turned a corner and put out for hard rubbish was..

I couldn't believe my luck; half deflated tyres, rusty as hell but with perfect working brakes and no spiders under the seat, I thought "you'll do me!" I rode it carefully the rest of the way to work. Well, I've kinda fallen in love.

Today I bought a helmet and lock. She's perfect: not so grand she's a target for thieves, grand enough for me to ride to work.

Today I rode her home to begin a new life with me, and it felt good.

Edit: please ignore my shitty side way garden.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

That's a nice find. Mudguards, basket, rear rack and chain guard are all premium additions. Those twist gears are a bit shit in my experience.

E: I reckon you can get some panniers for that rack.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

packing has commenced. I made the first book box and turned around for a sec to grab the box lid.

spoiler

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Looks all packed and ready to go.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

This is to be expected.

Miss Meow has been safely contained this afternoon inside a paper Coles bag that was lying on it's side, but I'm not sure that would work against the allure of a box.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

He’s just making sure he won’t be forgotten

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

They're giving my hopeless co-worker the clients I've been managing.

This is fucking hilarious. They couldn't even handle 1 client lol

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

🎵 Everything is broken

Everything is screwed and we're totally fucked 🎵

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ted is really enjoying helping with the packing. 🙂

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

took tomorrow off, four day blitz on garage to deal with sorrow commencing

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I feel deeply uncomfortable going to this funeral today. I really hate funerals, but it’s about being there to support a friend.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

so many hugs

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Got a bit of a gentle but well-deserved telling off from my supervisor about needing to finish collecting data by the end of the month. Stupid fucking ADHD brain really does need a threat to kick start itself. I hate it but it is what it is. Let's get this shit done.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have read a few books on the science of motivation, ( I read a lot of science/text books on psychology and psychiatry )

and what I learnt is that humans are social animals and that everyone does better with external motivators like a coach or a muse or a boss.

Even Olympic athletes need a coach.

So I ask/tell myself, I am no where near as good or dedicated as one of these elite people and if they need a coach then what about the rest of us? Why is there some societal belief that getting help with motivation or nudges is a weakness? It's not. Knowing we do better with other people giving motivation is a strength.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

It's very true, I do often need social motivation/a community to spur myself on, all the successful times in my life have been when I've had external motivators like that. I have often beat myself up about it because it feels like feeding my ego, and also it feels like a double edged sword - disappointment or discord with that external motivating person, especially a perceived sense of rejection, can have a dramatic negative effect (at least for me). But that shouldn't stop me from reaching out while being realistic with expectations. I have been blessed to have one of the most lenient and supportive supervisors I could get...

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Boss: can you check grafana pls, we have a lot of sites currently offline

Me: yah, they're all qld east coast

Boss: so?

Me:........

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Looking at the bom in brissy for Sat..

35 to 150 mm jeez.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I'm gonna drink tea and watch The White Lotus all day today.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Pizza was the better choice. I forget how shit KFC makes me feel the next day despite how tasty it is in the moment.

In other news, pretty much disconnected from everyone at work. I check the laptop a couple of times a day.

I really will miss these people but the situation was untenable.

I feel very unproductive though, which I dislike. Have been doing gym every day, plus guitar etc.

I think I actually miss work.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Goodnight all ❤️

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I've not managed to achieve anything since lunchtime because the entire tech ecosystem my job relies on is melting down.

On the other hand I did manage to make happy noises at a co-worker's dachshund puppy over webcam...so it is not a complete loss

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I don't want to say too much but lately my kid has been helping me obtain cookbooks, movies and tv series 😉 and I am in my glee. Finally she's earning her keep.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

my kid has been helping me obtain cookbooks, movies and tv series

And so it begins..

A life destined for navigating the high seas, it starts with downloading cookbooks and ends in downloading cars.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Overcome by yet another overwhelming wave of lethargy and sleep and needed to doze off for an hour there. This isn't good it's definitely a slide into the ol depresso funtimes. I can see myself trying to block out the huge cloud of sad/bad by just sleeping instead of doing anything ...

I am going to hit the pavement tomorrow, Saturday and maybe even Sunday if the weather's right, to get the west side data all collected, especially as now I really can only get data between about 10 and 2. Which is good in a way because fuck traffic and fuck getting overheated/dehydrated again during long days. But it means I might have to redo some my previous data... sigh... anyway I just need to get my head down, bum up, and go for it

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Noodle diaries day two:


Hot ones today

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

why does it feel hotter today than yesterday?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Moon tonight. Been a while since astro glad all of it still sort of works.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Fried rice is a lunch win

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Wave.

Camera almost drowned bit ruff out there :(

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I’m really regretting yesterday’s nap -_-

But I repaired Melbcat’s bed. The filling had become lumpy from being washed and had shifted so some spots were no longer padded. So I unpicked a small hidden section of the seam, gutted it and restuffed it with ‘new’ stuffing from a pillow. Then I hand sewed it shut.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Yeah, I went to bed around 8.30pm so here I am wide awake and well slept. Read another chapter of my book - now that I'm keeping off reddit for lentish. The body keeps score. It's about how we react to trauma and ptsd. It's interesting, but like with most self help books, it feels about 5x too long. I know people in publishing, I see the fluffed up points and word waffle. I prefer more concise writing in non-fiction. I never saw a maths book with twenty bullshit pages on Pythagoras' childhood dreams of being a dancer.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have that book too lol! I'm halfway bc I keep putting it down (some of the cases are quite triggering), but I enjoy looking at mental health from a well-reaearched, scientific perspective; the way Bessel details the history of PTSD is very engaging!

But yes, it waffles! So much waffle! GET TO THE POINT DAMMIT

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

omg, I have that book in audio and am going to start it today

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

bloody hell, esso got cancelled 7 hours into the entry queue

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Thanks Brion. 🙂

good night everyone, sweet dreams 😘

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

At Southland right now.

Some sort of emergency going on at Myers. Announcement going off and police at the entrance.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Woo hoo, light workload day tomorrow!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

New season of Daredevil is pretty good. Slow start, but they're building it up to something big.

D'onofrio as Fisk is still great.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Come on weekend, please get here soon, it's a long weekend!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Pizza, because of leftovers.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Pizza. You've potentially got the five food groups in one delicious serving. As far as "junk food" goes it's not so bad. I reckon KFC would have a lot more nasties than a pizza. Having an awesome pizza place nearby is gold! Also to feed my family KFC ($70 to $85) costs more than pizza ($51).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A pizza pie my guy

but not from dominos

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Team pizza here too.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (8 children)

I'm an email in the browser kind of guy. I don't know how people put up with a client. I like to open a link and have it go into the tab next to where I'm reading. I like being able to have my emails open in different tabs in multiple windows. Maybe it's because I'm young, but it's how I've always done it

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Doing orthodontics claims. MAN people have expensive teeth

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