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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 59 seconds ago

I’m working on a Lemmy client and I occasionally browse main stream social media to check the robustness of my app vs theirs. But I find myself enjoying mainstream less and less as I settle more into Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 25 minutes ago

Just lemmy for some years now. I do miss the Reddit of the olden days though. You know, when there was still some Aaron Schwartz in it.

Back in the I could go online and ask every goddamn question and a real person would give me an answer. There was this treasure trove of knowledge and opinions. Lemmy is sadly not quite there yet, but the memes are spicy and I like those nice socks you computer people wear.

I dream of the day, when somebody shuts down the internet. Because I know, all you sock wearing and Linux wielding Weirdos will get your shit running again the fastest.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Mf coming in with the receipts, that's good usage

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I stopped using Reddit when I got permabanned for speaking against fascism.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 29 minutes ago* (last edited 29 minutes ago)

same. just point out the American Revolution and you are gone.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 hours ago

I switched to lemmy about two years ago and went almost cold turkey. There was one community on reddit that I returned to a couple of times in the first few weeks, but even that stopped as it just wasn’t worth it. I have been to reddit a few times since, but only when trying to solve a problem and reddit comes up as a search result, and only after trying other sources first.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

I only use Reddit when it comes up in a search result. Otherwise it is Lemmy all the way

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Reddit killed third party apps, and so they killed my engagement with them. Why go back?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

They killed Apollo and I’ll never forgive them.

Luckily, Voyager is pretty similar with Lemmy

[–] phobos 3 points 3 hours ago

Same for me. Reddit walled access to their platform so I sought alternatives. Lemmy filed that void.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

I use facebook marketplace and youtube but that's it when it comes to corpo social media

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Is that really considered hardcore?

I follow some local news and i have a list of video content creators i download with a script but other then that its just the Lemmy verse for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago

Only Lemmy.

Im IP banned from Reddit though. Still wouldn’t ever go back.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I still browse reddit but I was banned a long while ago. Guess I thumbed up too many Luigi posts lol

I go here to post (just wish I could find similar threads/subreddit or whatever. I miss posting on niche subjects)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I only use lemmy now although I don't know understand what is a local user.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I stopped using reddit when they wouldn't allow 3rd parts apps, also stopped using twitter when Elon changed it x. I still use facebook for friends, family, coworkers and occasionally marketplace.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Can't use Reddit if I'm permanently banned. Fuck them anyways.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

There is a treasure trove of useful knowledge fragments that I occasionally use at work - like for when I do a web search for an obscure error message - however I don't engage with the platform, just reference it when useful. Otherwise Fediverse forever, fam!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago

I'm only on Lemmy (and other Fediverse sites). And I guess I ramble and post photos on Tumblr (but I think they're working on ActivityPub support too?)

I only occasionally pick up random Reddit threads on web searches (and even those seem few and far between these days), and I'm definitely not posting there anymore.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Trying to but its hard. But I'm only on reddit when i really have to throught the browser. I try to minimize my traffic there.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Occasionally I'll hit up a reddit result if I'm doing a search looking for an answer to a specific question. But I never browse it since the 3rd party apps stopped working.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Yes, hi. I have fully abandoned antisocial media.

Stuff is not important anyway, no matter where it is posted. I get input here, which is okay. But the most important part is: I dont get centrally controlled propaganda and am able to form my own input as I can handle it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 hours ago

Well, I'm permanently banned from Reddit, so....here I am!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago

I'm only three (3) active (and hopefully semi/official) communities away from ditching r/ and moving completely to c/; for most of everything else I've found quite sufficient activity on Lemmy + Mastodon. Alas, since "representatives moving their community to lemmy" is not the kind of stuff you can enhance yourself unless you are an admin of those, I'm stuck on waiting.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Well i do use youtube but other than that i basically only use non-mainstream social media. I also use snapchat but only for messaging.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

I use only Lemmy. It was easy for me since I pretty much only used Reddit until the mass exodus happened about a year ago and then shortly after they killed the RiF app for Android and I lost the way that I consumed Reddit 95% of the time so I transitioned to using Lemmy full time. I didn't have much of a choice unless I used PC to access Reddit, which I will still do from time to time for niche subjects, but I avoid posting.

I've never had any other "traditional" social media accounts. Call me a hipster, but I thought that shit was lame when people were constantly asking about adding me on MySpace or Facebook and just never bothered to jump on the bandwagon. Eventually, when it came out that those places were cesspools run by unethical hacks I avoided ever signing up intentionally and thanked my lucky stars that I was a grumpy and rebellious contrarian in my youth. I think I was forced to make a Facebook account to use my Oculus VR headset, but I put in as little factual information as I could get away with and never interacted with their terrible algorithm.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 hours ago

I'm only on Lemmy and deleted my reddit accounts

[–] DiabolicalBird 1 points 3 hours ago

It's a very quick way to end up in an echo chamber, Lemmy is a very niche platform. I try to keep up with Reddit, Lemmy and Mastodon. Not a huge amount better, but it's a bit more variety than one tiny service.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I realized sometime in the last year that Lemmy provided me all the usual community groups I needed and actually content I wanted to read (I never really used Reddit to just browse, outside of the sub.s I'd joined).

And I've been using Mastodon since, like 2020 or something (never was a fan of Twitter, though).

Also stopped using Facebook though that's probably more due to burnout and falling out of touch with a lot of the people in my life. Facebook really did make navigating socializing and keeping in touch both easier and less energy intensive and it is, for me, a good example of how social media can be good rather than this nebulous Garbage™ that people seem to emotionally brand such a large classification as. Shame about it being owned by one of the worst human beings (but it was also always going to end up as shit – in the end –, so long as owned by a corporation); since I'd already dropped in using it, I just opted to stay stopped.

Still use YouTube as there isn't a real viable alternative yet; itching for the day they're is.

And still use Tumblr, as most of those I socialize with are on there; though it has built up plenty of its own enshittification over the last few years. If I ever finish my Fediverse clone of it, that's where I'll be sprinting to.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

I only use Lemmy

[–] Two2Tango 1 points 3 hours ago

I only use Lemmy except if I want to see some hot F1 gossip, in which case I'm back to /r/formula1

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

I’m off Facebook because they ban you for picking on racists now. I’m off Reddit as well. I barely go there on mobile but catch myself there on desktop if I’m researching something.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

I only use Lemmy and Piefed.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago

Only using Lemmy. R***it has abundantly convinced me to never look back there.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Lemmy only. Reddit has become some strange mix of Quora and X or something like that at this point.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

Depends on your definition of social media I guess.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago

Lemmy only. Actually, I just can't stand the corpoverse, it's litterally painful for me to browse. The only exception so far is instagram because it's dopamine gold and you can discover a lot of things, but this is less and less true. And with voyager integrating pixelfed in upcoming updates... well i'll just migrate

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

Seeing how this post has 600 replies and I see a lot of activity in the past 6 months I feel Lemmy is doing pretty well as a reddit alternative.

I certainly don't miss the amount of shitposting that reddit had. Literally every first post was some dumb joke that didn't even made me chuckle..

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy Mastodon Bluesky

These are my main social media platforms now.

I might hit a Reddit link here or there because occasionally the information I need is posted there (that I found from a web search). But I don't browse that site ever any more.

Deleted Twitter because of elon. Deleted Facebook after Cambridge Analytica. Never had Instagram (will never download a Meta app at this point).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Same here. Nothing could convince me to go back to Reddit or Twitter at this point.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Right. I'm literally missing nothing of value by not going there.

People like to think they are missing something. But they aren't.

"But my [topic of interest] isn't on [some other platform]!" Then be the change. Stop lurking and make it if you want to see it. That thing started off small at Reddit and Twitter, too. They just have the momentum of being around for a decade or more.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

I never post or browse Reddit anymore, but I'll still look at Reddit search results. There's just too much good information on there that you just can't find elsewhere.

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