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Help with my friend again? (lemmy.ml)
 

So my (24F) friend Jaiden (24F) has come from, according to her, an abusive family in Asia. We are online friends but don't know each other in real life. She wants to be the greatest person alive and constantly talks about how she wants to be this very great, multitalented person who's an actress, model, fantastic artist, etc. and how she wants to be famous but then talks about how she's horrible and will never be this all the time and IDK how to help anymore. I listen but she always asks me if I think she can be this person.

is this just a roundabout breakup message?? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

So he's neglectful, I guess. I'm sorry

is this just a roundabout breakup message?? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This relationship sounds toxic. I'd break up if I were you. He hurts you? Is he abusive then??

Do instances exist where you can be 13+? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

if it's who I think it is, they themselves said so

Do instances exist where you can be 13+? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

They may have been 16-17 then. Her?? or no?

Do instances exist where you can be 13+? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Was it that one 14 yr old girl?? She was permabanned everywhere.

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Do instances exist where you can be 13+? (lemmy.ml)
 

I think this was asked by someone already, but I do wonder. I think it would be cool if my sister joined the Fediverse (but blocked NSFW content). She is a high school freshman, but I can’t have her join an instance where you must be an adult.

I do have friends on other social medias that are 13+ with their teen siblings making an account to follow them, but what are the rules here??

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Flag of Beckyland (lemmy.ml)
 

Dad won’t let sister see boyfriend until she’s 18? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you so much!!! :)

Dad won’t let sister see boyfriend until she’s 18? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you!! Her boyfriend says he doesn’t believe in sex before marriage, IDK…

Dad won’t let sister see boyfriend until she’s 18? in c/[email protected]
rings came!!! in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Nice!!

Sister’s boyfriend genuinely struggles with understanding gender identity, kind ways to help?? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Did Dominic date James pre-transition and then break up once he came out?

He dated James pre-transition and broke up after he cheated on him.

If so, he may have internalized homophobia and doesn’t want to recognize that he dated a boy. He may want to think “James is actually a girl, so I am not gay” and that’s why he deadnames and misgenders him.

He says he does it because James cheated and bullied him. Oddly, he has dated guys before and used to be bi before he said men were toxic to him and he didn’t like them anymore.

my brain is and always has been a girl’s brain despite being put into boy’s packaging.

Correct!! :3

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Sister’s boyfriend genuinely struggles with understanding gender identity, kind ways to help?? (lemmy.ml)
submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
3 comments fedilink
 

(I don’t mean to make a whole saga of my life, I just wanted to talk about this.)

My (24F) sister Lena (14F), for anyone who hasn’t seen my previous posts, has a boyfriend named Dominic (16M).

Dominic has dealt with his ex James (16FtM). Dominic keeps calling James by his deadname because he doesn’t like James. He eventually blocked James and rarely mentions him.

“I will properly name and gender people who don’t abuse me”.

I wouldn’t say Dominic has zero empathy, but it’s definitely not a strong suit of his. Dominic, I hate to say this, kind of reacts to gender the way a 65-year-old dad with little experience on transgender would react if his kid was trans or something.

Dominic tries to understand, in other words, but doesn’t. I want to educate him, but I feel rude doing so, even though I will correct him sometimes. He will say stuff like “Sara is a trans girl, so she is actually a boy but now she is a girl.” I can tell that he tries to understand, just not with people he hates like James. But he does try to understand with most people like “Sara” in the example.

He has a good heart. He’s really a good kid, he just fails to empathize or understand sometimes.

For worldbuilding, should Kiwi Farms be banned? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks, she'll be ok with social media but not ones like Kiwi Farms or free speech absolutism.

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For worldbuilding, should Kiwi Farms be banned? (lemmy.ml)
 

In my fictional country, my character banned Kiwi Farms, but someone said that it would mean she hated free speech.

She doesn’t want harassment to occur in her country: for her citizens to harass others or become victims/“lolcows”.

I know it’s my world, but I need some advice.

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Beckyland, for my fictional country! (lemmy.ml)
 

publicado de forma cruzada desde: https://lemmy.ml/post/31497191

It’s for my worldbuilding, [email protected]

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Beckyland, for my fictional country! (lemmy.ml)
 

It’s for my worldbuilding, [email protected]

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Queen Becca bans more sites (lemmy.ml)
 

Queen Becca, on June 10, 2025, bans the following sites:

  • 8kun, for white supremacism, neo-Nazism, alt-right, racism, antisemitism, hate crimes, and mass shootings

  • Truth Social & X for toxicity and overly right-wing content.

My girlfriend doesn’t like what I said, but she said she still loves me in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

She probably thinks what you said is fine, just not while she’s suicidal. You don’t bring up religion when someone’s going through a tough time.

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Which sites promote bullying or hate? (lemmy.ml)
 

I’m asking here because I may get judged less. I’m not asking as a hateful person. In my story, my worldbuilding, there is a fictional Queen who is banning sites like Kiwi Farms.

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Kiwi Farms banned in Beckyland: “Hate has no home in Beckyland” (lemmy.ml)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
0 comments fedilink
 

[This post is for my fictional country of Beckyland.]

Yesterday, on June 9, 2025, Queen Becca has announced the end of Kiwi Farms in her country. The Queen has declared it a hateful site and does not want it to “set foot” anywhere in the country. She does not want her fellow citizens to use the site nor does she want them having any sort of access or even becoming “lolcows”.

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Is there a more convenient way to do this? (lemmy.ml)
 

My sister Lena’s boyfriend Dominic has French parents who he says don’t speak any English at all. Dominic could just translate for them, but if our parents our meeting his, is there a more convenient way or will he just have to translate all the time?

Like, what if his parents just want to communicate with ours without Dominic or Lena? Do they just use the voice to translated text?

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When did you realize your toxic loved one’s behavior wasn’t normal? (lemmy.ml)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
16 comments fedilink
 

My ex would always yell at me for pointless stuff and make me cry in front of his friends. They didn’t even like him, they just tolerated him.

My sister’s friend would blame my sister for stupid things and try to say it’s my sister’s fault, not hers. She would yell at her too and try to pass it off as a joke.

(We are very much healing now 🫂 Not perfect, but healing)

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