overview for Blazingtransfem98

LW admins instance-ban a Lemm.ee user for being underage in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 months ago (11 children)

What if they have shitty parents and need to go online to vent?

That's the whole point, they want to keep children away from support networks to enforce the idea of parents owning their children. People are going to argue otherwise but as a trans person myself I've seen this and you're not fooling anyone with your lame excuses about protecting kids. People especially those who are vulnerable need support networks, do you know how many trans kids kill themselves because they can't get the support they need and live with abusive and controlling parents. Don't tell me it's to protect kids, I'm not stupid enough to buy that lie and you're not stupid enough to think I'd buy it.

totally not hypocritical rule in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 39 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I've been told by conservative losers like this that I'm trying to force transness on them, no dumbass I'm trying to live my life and pass as a woman. The last thing I want is for people to see me as a trans woman.

The irony is that these idiots just like the comic, openly advertise themselves as conservative, they're making it a part of their personality.

tism rule in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Sex and gender aren't the same thing though. They are different concepts. I mean I am a trans woman, I identify as and largely appear to be a woman, but my biology and how I was born is physically male. This doesn't make me any less of a woman though.

Do you all think Draconic NEO will make a pretty girl? in c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

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Can using any/all pronouns imply your trans? in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If you're considering using different pronouns that's not exactly cis is it?

Banned from Egg_irl for calling out a Mod's misuse of the Egg prime directive in c/[email protected]

[+] [email protected] -8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

for fuck’s sake, chill. they were calling out one specific trans person who was harassing people who weren’t using their preferred pronouns.

You don't get to pick and choose which trans people are valid or who should have their pronouns respected. Anyone who does that is a transphobic dipshit.

Draconic_NEO thinks that while trans people are valid, and neopronouns like xe/xer are valid, neoprounouns like “drag” that refer only to a single person cease to function as pronouns. when a word refers exclusively to a single person, that word is a proper noun. Draconic_NEO also thinks that hounding people over failure to use neopronouns is not especially poggers. these are both very reasonable stances.

He repeatedly refused to use drag's preferred pronouns, and continued to use they/them even though they aren't drag's pronouns. He is devaluing nounself pronouns and using that as an excuse not to use the person's preferred pronouns. Which the dumb fuck hasn't done even once.

by your comment history i’m guessing you’ve just started hormones. you’re definitely not the first trans girl who’s gone through a major emotional phase. hormones are running high – it’s no surprise you’re prone to lashing out. but i’d like to remind you that you’re saying that someone hates all trans people based on an opinion in reference to neopronouns, which are an entirely separate issue from the concept of transness and a contentious topic even among nonbinary people – an opinion, i might add, that that person has demonstrated they do not hold.

Real good faith argument there, trying to blame my anger about his transphobia on my hormones, just a whiny emotional tranny who's upset because of her hormones. Typical response from a transphobe or someone sticking up for them. Draconic isn't a transphobe because he has an opinion, he's a transphobe because he refuses to use the person's preferred pronouns and uses that statement about nounself pronouns as an excuse for his awful behavior.

personally, I’d advocate against someone being banned from the entire Fediverse if they said being gay should be illegal – and i am gay. people’s opinions can change, and permanent bans from entire platforms do nothing except make them more bitter and more hateful. you can ban assholes from communities, and if you disagree with the mods on whether someone should be banned, lemmy has a block button for a reason.

You're against kicking bigots out of our safe spaces? You sound like someone from AskGayBros, especially after saying that shit about my hormones. I did block that dipshit, he asked me not to respond to him anymore so I obliged. He's hurting trans people though by misgendering and being a bigot. That's why he needs to be banned, not just because I'm a soft little tranny snowflake who's upset by him, but because he's an evil piece of shit.

more to the point, though, the point of the fediverse is, and has been from its inception, uncensorable freedom of speech.

aaaand that's where I stop responding to your comment, proving all my suspicions about you earlier about you being one of those alt-right GayBros.

also, pro tip: pinging someone over and over and calling them a hateful bigot, especially when they aren’t, doesn’t make them change their mind, it just makes them annoyed at you.

Good, let the asshole be annoyed by the overly emotional and sensitive tranny snowflake, maybe it'll make him say some shit that gets his ass banned

Hey @[email protected], is the emotional little tranny snowflake annoying you? Too bad, I'm not going anywhere until your ass is banned. I'm not going to cry and kill myself like you think I am no matter what you say to me you stupid fuck!

Banned from Egg_irl for calling out a Mod's misuse of the Egg prime directive in c/[email protected]

Drinking the Gender Fluid rule in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

You should learn about Tor just in case you have to buy your hormones from underground from .onion sites. Also helps in case they start censoring information on it, or trying to track users who look that stuff up.

egg 🪖 irl in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Why wait until then? They might require more than just saying you're trans to get out of it, come out, get hormones, surgeries (if you want) stuff that isn't reversible that would make you physically less able to qualify.

egg 🪖 irl in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

I guess those different ways might come in handy after all then.

egg 🪖 irl in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Thankfully I'm too old to be drafted. 32 as of writing this, if it had happened when I was younger I probably would've tried to get out of it, different ways though since I was so stubborn and I didn't end up realizing I'm trans until I was 26, almost 27.

Drinking the Gender Fluid rule in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

When I questioned them about the requirement they said they needed to make sure I wouldn't regret it. Asshole literally laughed when I looked him in the eye! He was lying to me about that reason, the real reason was perfectly clear to me.