DrainKikoLake

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[–] DrainKikoLake 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Hi, I'm writing as someone with ADHD who was not diagnosed until my mid-30s, and also as a parent of a child who is medicated for his ADHD. We both have inattentive-type (no hyperactivity).

My husband was also very nervous about medicating our son. Part of what convinced him was seeing the very positive difference it made in my life when I started taking medication. After some trial I found a dose that works well for me; it helps me to focus and stay organized, and I still feel completely myself. There are some side effects, for me mostly to do with appetite, but they are manageable.

Our son is a few years older than yours, and he's on a low dose (10mg) of his medication, which works well for him. It does help him keep on track with things like schoolwork, but by far the biggest benefit we've seen is in the social/emotional sphere. He is much better able to recognize and control his emotions, and he almost never has an emotional meltdown anymore (whereas before small things would set him off very easily). He's a happy, engaged kid.

The one thing we have to monitor with him is his weight gain. Because appetite suppression is a side-effect, his growth slowed down a lot. For a while we saw his doctor every three months (then every six) so that she could keep an eye on it. We try to feed him a good breakfast and a lot of food at/after dinner once his meds have worn off, since he eats very little during the day. At his doctor's suggestion, he also foregoes his medication one day a week so that he can have a more regular eating day. He's back on track with weight gain, which is good! (The meds also make it difficult for him to fall asleep at night; again, at his doctor's suggestion, he takes a small dose of melatonin -- this is over-the-counter in my country although I know it isn't everywhere -- which sets him up nicely.)

The good thing about ADHD meds is that they're not like SSRIs where you probably won't feel a difference for 4-6 weeks and then have to carefully wean off them. ADHD meds kick in 30-60 minutes after you take them, and their effect lasts 8-12 hours and then stops. It will be very easy to see whether they're effective for your son, and it's safe and easy to stop and try a different drug or a different dose if needed.

I hope that helps! Feel free to ask follow-up questions if you'd like.

[–] DrainKikoLake 5 points 4 days ago

I've heard that Meyer lemons are relatively easy to keep as indoor potted plants.

[–] DrainKikoLake 22 points 4 days ago

That's what I've been doing. Order of priority:

  1. Canadian company
  2. Non-Canadian, non-American
  3. American but franchised/operating in Canada
  4. American
[–] DrainKikoLake 1 points 5 days ago

In my experience a women's wide is akin to a men's regular.

[–] DrainKikoLake 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Skunks are common city animals, so it's a little more surprising to me that you haven't encountered then before. But for the most part they're pretty chill little guys, and forage widely -- so seeing one in your yard doesn't mean they've taken up residence. They eat grubs mostly (which is great for lawns and gardens).

As others have said, as long as you're not getting up in their faces, you shouldn't have any problems.

[–] DrainKikoLake 8 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Even if the length is the same, men's shoes tend to be wider than women's (sometimes much wider). So swapping is great if you're a woman with wide feet, but if you're a man with wide or even average feet, it would be much harder to swap to a woman's shoe.

[–] DrainKikoLake 34 points 5 days ago

"-music" should mostly do the trick... unless you're looking for music.

[–] DrainKikoLake 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

The US has a huge number of cities named after cities/regions in other parts of the world, e.g.:

  • Moscow, Idaho
  • Ottawa, Illinois
  • Brussels, Wisconsin
  • Ontario, California
  • Paris, Texas
  • etc!

Adding the country or state designation after one of these names is helpful for clarity.

[–] DrainKikoLake 3 points 6 days ago

Haha yeah it's pretty nuts. There are some great neopets write-ups on r/hobbydrama. Plus my favourite Jellyneo article of all time: https://www.jellyneo.net/?go=comments&post=14373

[–] DrainKikoLake 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I had to provide the username, the birthday on the account, and the original email -- I don't recall what else. But here's the general info & you can use the "create a ticket" button at the bottom.

https://classic.support.neopets.com/hc/en-us/categories/17732911148045

[–] DrainKikoLake 2 points 6 days ago

Ah, I see. I only see your username, not a display name; maybe because I'm using Boost?

[–] DrainKikoLake 3 points 6 days ago (4 children)

With support's help I was able to get into my childhood account from 2001 and that's what I'm playing with now! You don't need to if you don't want to, of course, but it can be done.

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