Vanth

I call AI slop. That quoted paragraph is terrible.

"A fifth of children are in broken homes or parentless". Lol, as if kids raised by a single parent need to be adopted by a married couple. Bullshit.

I follow the directions on the container. Mine doesn't say to let it set, so it stays in as long as it takes me to give it and my scalp a good scrub.

Edit: I also use something called co-wash, not conditioner.

Feels bad, man. I just hope other countries pay attention. Y'all are seeing swings to the right too. Germany, Canada, Sweden, France, more, check yourselves before you find yourselves in the same spot.

Lol, no. They were able to have a house and multiple kids on one salary.

Watch some rugby and highlights from last weekend. MLR in the US. Off week for Six Nations.

would a "standard" commoner from back then laugh at how 'soft' our world has become from their point of view?

No, they'd either want the same or they'd think we're evil magicians and want to burn us at the stake. Who tf wants more infant mortality (except for US Republicans and their ilk).

"Ah yes, dying in childbirth really builds character!"

"Contracting polio really put hair on my son's chest and made him into the man he is today!"

"I'm so glad I can look forward to a life of hard physical labor and and death at 40. Not like those future weaklings who might survive into their 70s and beyond."

"Oh, boy. Chattel slavery has been great for us. The family that picks cotton together, sticks together ... until our owners decide to sell us off."

While I have some savings, I'm not wealthy and I'd rather be employed. The best time for me to look for a better job would be while employed and on ok financial footing.

I'm also in a position where I could insulate myself from a lot of toxic personalities and "quiet quit" to some degree before getting fired. And getting fired would mean unemployment benefits where I live, so I'd be ok with that.

Hindsight is 20:20. Regardless, I think Bob is overreacting, assuming your email to Alice was in the range of what I personally would write and nothing you said was sparking red flags to me l.

Did they ever get it functional? I tried it a few times early on and it was terrible.

Oh, for sure. I guess I assumed Bob made the introduction by email. So OP could reply to that intro email with a "Thanks, Bob! Alice, pleasure to meet you, I'll send you a separate email to introduce myself and blah de blah".

Acknowledge the email and thank Bob, then drop him from the convo. Regardless, Bob doesn't need to see the sausage being made.

Without reading your actual email, this all sounds normal to me. Networking is how people get jobs.

I would have probably thanked Bob and dropped him from the email before asking Alice questions. Bob doesn't need to be on that email once he's made the introduction.

The family that collects sticks together ... sticks together.