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[–] [email protected] 62 points 6 days ago (23 children)

I don't even know what's on that one page

[–] [email protected] 104 points 6 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (12 children)

Delicious in Dungeon, Frieren, Hands off my Eizouken, and Bocchi the Rock probably

Edited to add Spy x Family, and I suppose Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood depending on if one feels Winry is sexualized.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Don't worry, the number of people saying Frieren is a child is astounding

[–] [email protected] 59 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Although she appears to be very young, she was born into a long-lived race of elves and has lived for over a thousand years.

Oh, that old chestnut.

[–] [email protected] 64 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Not really, she really is just an old elf lady who looks like a young adult human. There's nothing sexualised about her, and she's not childlike. For example here she is next to a human child who becomes her apprentice:

And here she is talking to a human priest she was adventuring with 50 years ago, he's grown old, she hasn't changed:

And here she is head patting him, to give him reassurance that he did well after he confides that he never felt like he figured out how to be "a grown up" and just kept faking it while growing old:

The human child is Fern, and the old Priest Heiter picked her up after she was orphaned by a demon attack. Heiter asks Frieren to keep taking care of Fern after his death, and mentor her in magic.

It's a really nice relationship driven story with an interesting storyline and magic system.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago

That's a nice change of pace.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 6 days ago

It's not the 1000-year-old-who-looks-8 trope, it's the 1000-year-old-who-looks-25 trope. She's never portrayed as anything close to childlike.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

As everyone else has said, she's not a child-but-actually-ancient. The show is not about sex. It's about mortality. I started watching it, and I want to continue, but it's really depressing. I wasn't in the right mood to keep going.

As far as I'm aware, there are absolutely no sexual undertones in the show. It's sometimes funny, but it's also pretty serious.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

That trope bothers me too, but basically any anime female is going to look the same anywhere from 12 to 40 due to the way the features are stylized. So, looking for context clues is how you find the age of a character if it's not explicitly said. Frieren is absolutely treated like, dresses like, and acts like an adult. She's smaller than a human man, larger than a dwarf or human child, and while she's infantalized a little by Fern it's very much in the "how are you this old and still not taking responsibility for x" way.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Medalist

By the grace of gods

Non non biyori

Laid back camp

The ancient magus bride

New game

Himouto Umaru chan

In the land of Leadale

I’ve been killing slimes for 300 years

Kuma kuma kuma bear

Log horizon

Ranking of kings

Shadows house

Spy x family

Spice and Wolf

Ascendance of a bookworm

Girls und panzer

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

Girls Under Panzer put all the fan service into a separate series of short (under 5 mins) OVAs, so it's avoidable but does exist ...

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago

I feel like campfire cooking would fall into this as well

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

As much as I fuckin love Frieren they totally sexualize Fern when she's under 18, though tbh it does feel less gross than usual considering how clothed she is & the weird relationship she has with her master

Frieren is suuuuuper jealous of Fern once she starts developing (with the show repeatedly using camera angles to show it) and Fern's 18th birthday is in the later half of the first season. It was funny and rather realistic having been around girls that behaved like that, but as an adult man it was obvious the camera had a serious liking of staring at Fern's chest whenever it could

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (6 children)

My daughter (11) wants to watch more anime than what's on Netflix. Are these good for girls that age, you'd guess?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Frieren is very violent. Amazing show, but definitely not for kids.

Bocchi has exactly one fanservice gag I can recall, but it's a fairly tame one. Probably fine, the whole rest of the show has nothing else inappropriate I can think of. It is sub-only though, so I guess it really depends on whether she's fine with reading subtitles?

Delicious in Dungeon, some violence but nothing gory, compared to Frieren I don't think it's too much.

I haven't seen the other one that was mentioned so I can't speak for it.

Honestly I'd say it depends on your daughter and what you think she can handle. I'm not a parent, so it's hard for me to judge. Maybe screen a few episodes for yourself and decide what you think is appropriate?

Edit: Though just to add one more nomination for you, Little Witch Academia immediately comes to mind as a show I think would be absolutely perfect for that age.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago

Delicious has a bunch of fanservice but it’s all a joke and entirely focused on the dwarf character who is an old man.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

My 11 year old sister's recommendation for 11 year old girls: Sk8 the Infinity

It's a campy sports anime about an underground skateboarding gang where people skate "to the death" (nobody dies).

It's on Crunchyroll or wherever you get your anime ;)

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Full Metal Alchemist brotherhood, maybe.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago

Yup it's only one I can think of in the good animes that doesn't glorify unhealthy relationships.

Them learning to let go of their mom was good. Very rare.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (2 children)

How you got this many replies without a single mention of Cowboy Bebop is beyond me.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I love Cowboy Bebop but that series is one giant unhealthy relationship.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I don’t think it glorifies unhealthy relationships but it definitely features them

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

It also depicts racial minorities often kinda poorly, at least artistically. It's been a while though. I don't remember it treating them badly plotwise, just made some of them look like caricatures.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (39 children)

Eh, they exist. You've got classics like Death Note and more recent stuff like Frieren. It's definitely a short list though.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago

All the classics like the Ghibli stuff. Lots of more serious stuff doesnt have those issues either like Vinland Saga or Attack on Titan. Also cute stuff like Yuru Camp.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

It's not that short, you just need to pick a genre different from shounen if you don't like fanservice. Also many older shounen are good, think about the Digimon, Pokémon and Gundam franchises to name a few famous ones.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You've never seen Spice and Wolf? Chihayafuru? Hibike! Euphonium? Mushishi? Samurai Champloo? Death Note? Inferno Cop?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Okay but Death Note is nothing but unhealthy relationships

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

Full metal Alchemist is my bet.

Otherwise I know a lot of good animes but they tend to glorify unhealthy relationships looks at the space cowboy murdering people.

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