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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Richbynameonly 11 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Fuck sake. You really giving yourself a pass? You lazy sack of shit, you literally DO NOTHING and you’re giving yourself grace for your “laundry battle” which quite frankly consists of all your vacation laundry. Because your smelly slob husband literally doesn’t work, your imprisoned child goes nowhere and your big kids (hopefully) left your empty home to go live with their dad. Make it make sense 🤦🏻‍♀️

[–] MoonChild 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I detest it when she said she’s ’giving herself grace’. It’s bullshit. She does less than nothing and can’t even complete a task that every, fully-functioning adults does. She can put in a load of laundry and then go sit on her ass. It’s not hard. She’s not scrubbing the clothes on a washboard or using a wringer washer FFS

[–] crownofgold6 14 points 4 days ago (4 children)

“I signed up for everyone having clean clothes available” ???? Well aren’t you a saint. Her big kids can’t do their own laundry? I was def doing small loads of my own laundry at their ages, but I’ve come to the conclusion they have zero responsibilities around the house. God forbid you need to wash your youngests clothes, like wtf???? I’m sure majority of the laundry bin is her own mess anyways.

She really does need props for everything she does. I’m sick as a dog right now, pregnant and I just finished folding a load of laundry and put in a load of laundry that I’ll proceed to also fold and put away when it’s done. Guess what though? I’m not gonna get on social media and ask for accolades for it, I’m just doing it bc it’s part of life.

[–] facialSwelling 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

👏 👏 👏 👏 She probably doesn't ever do the laundry. NK probably called in sick.

[–] crownofgold6 9 points 4 days ago

I thought that too, I bet NK washes all of L’s clothes.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 8 points 4 days ago

She's such a loser.

[–] MoonChild 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I hope you feel better! 💐

[–] crownofgold6 5 points 4 days ago

Thank you 🩷🩷🩷

[–] Richbynameonly 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] crownofgold6 7 points 4 days ago

Thank you 🩷

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 11 points 4 days ago

What a stupid fucken face

[–] Poofluencers 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

Looked at some of these comments from the big sister post - this is all too weird. It’s the Sarah show and they get to be a part of it. Please discuss - it’s making my brain hurt that they are all this far up her ass. Is this normal friendship? Girlhood is togetherness, respect and support I don’t think it’s picking your queen and circling her like a cult.

[–] facialSwelling 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's really weird, the idolization. I think Sarah has assembled this group of friends because she knows they feel less than her. Sarah only hangs out with women who have low self-esteem. The women may be successful, Joanna, for example. However, they all talk about not fitting in. When Sarah is around anyone who has confidence, she shrinks. This girl group idolize Sarah because she's the boldest of their sad little bunch. Think of Sarah in Mexico when she was around Valeria or in Miami around all the SI models she shrunk. When she's around Alicia Mccarvell, Sarah is a bold bitch. She's a mean girl.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 6 points 5 days ago
[–] MoonChild 9 points 4 days ago

This isn’t like any friendship I’ve experienced as an adult. There are children who need to be the centre of attention but you teach them to share the world and the spotlight. Sarah doesn’t seem to have received this message at any point in her life. It doesn’t sound like she made any effort to make her sister feel part of the group. And ‘gosh, darn’ WTF is that?

[–] crownofgold6 10 points 5 days ago

“I stayed in the background just to observe and let Sarah be with her friends” good lord how pathetic.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 9 points 5 days ago

A lot of talk about emotions for someone who isn’t emotional. The performance is gross.

[–] Lisamarie 8 points 5 days ago

I agree, it’s all so bizarre! And S. isn’t even a likeable person so what’s with all of the worshipping from these other women?

[–] crownofgold6 12 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Jfc wicked AGAIN?!?!?!? They watch it literally every single day. Obviously kids deserve entertainment but do they do anything educational with this kid? Good lord what a life.

[–] Richbynameonly 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Willing to bet money the poor prison child doesn’t get enrolled in JK! God forbid she catches a cold

[–] MoonChild 10 points 4 days ago

Life gets harder once they’re in school. They have to be up, dressed, fed and out the door. I’m positive 🍋 eats her meals at Nana’s. The little ones are often grumpy after a day at school so they’d have to deal with that as well as keeping on top of the school calendar and the special spirit week things as well as liaising with the teacher. That’s too much for these two useless parents. They might just keep her sheltered at Nana K’s for another year.

[–] crownofgold6 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I wish shame would put his foot down, be a father and take initiative like when he wanted her to see a speech therapist but I’ve gotten the sense he’s kinda checked out and given up. Poor kid deserves so much better.

[–] Kar 9 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It is weird she isn’t posting about checking out JKs, etc. Or is it too early in the year for that in Guelph?

[–] FraudulentFruit1 12 points 5 days ago

Ariana registered her kids in January. I’m assuming Bird isn’t putting her kid in school because we know damn well she would have posted about it with toilet poetry and fake tears.

[–] Lisamarie 9 points 5 days ago

Kindergarten registration started in January. I keep hoping she’ll enroll L. in school too!

[–] Glowpop 3 points 4 days ago

Why is that dumb fcuking porch ornament still inside the house... why doesn't she want to show off her super cool goose to the neighbours

[–] facialSwelling 12 points 5 days ago

I love that Sarah went with a millennial decor style that's already dated.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 9 points 5 days ago

It’s actually insane.

[–] Rarepotato 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Poofluencers 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)

No filter or filler here 🤣. Why does Sarah only wear her tiny tops at home?

[–] crownofgold6 13 points 5 days ago

She’s really feeling herself today in her jeans and crop top looking like a size 4.

[–] facialSwelling 13 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Why is her top on when she's cooking. 😂

[–] Poofluencers 13 points 5 days ago (2 children)

🤣 There’s probably nothing in the pot! 🥴

[–] Uterusofsteel 10 points 5 days ago

That's literally what I was thinking lol it didn't look like anything and she usually brags about her "recipes".

[–] facialSwelling 6 points 5 days ago
[–] AlwaysMissing0 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Is she trying to look Asian now?? Those eyes do NOT slant upward IRL.

[–] Poofluencers 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think she’s channeling Tori Spelling.

[–] facialSwelling 4 points 5 days ago

Tori and Sarah are starting to twin. I love this for Sarah.

[–] AlwaysMissing0 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

Imagine coming home on a Monday, and then admitting on a Saturday to 2+ million people and bots that you only unpacked now to get your dirty jeans out, because you’re in the mood to show your stretch marks. And everyone knows you don’t have a job, but have 24/7 childcare.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 9 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Ariana was feeling left out.

[–] facialSwelling 8 points 5 days ago

Everything is really hard for these women. 🙄

[–] crownofgold6 5 points 5 days ago

These women are such losers

[–] crownofgold6 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

She’s sooooo lazy. She sat on the sofa all week, why didn’t she unpack and do laundry?

And now she has trauma from almost washing her eagles sweater which I bet she didn’t, she just wanted a dumb story to tell.

[–] Richbynameonly 11 points 6 days ago

She’s such a fucking idiot

[–] FraudulentFruit1 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

The state of RR’s closet made my jaw drop.

[–] Poofluencers 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

They are such losers - perpetually 13 years old, she and Sarah are lucky to have found each other. Renee is such a sponge and so empty she’s mirroring Sarah and I don’t think she even see it. There is imitation as flattery and there there is being so insecure and void of any self - that’s what Renee is doing.

This mess in her closet and then complaining on the internet about washing her fake hair. I don’t know how these woman sleep at night. They are idiots. And gross.

[–] MoonChild 10 points 5 days ago

That’s really interesting because we know Sarah doesn’t have her own personality either. She mimics the speech patterns she consumes on IG and mines it for interests so Renee is mirroring someone who isn’t real. They are both just empty shells.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

This isn’t the flex she thinks it is. This is disgusting

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