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transcriptA picture of the Ben Affleck Smoking meme, with the caption "Me seeing people on reddit telling other people to go to lemmy.world"

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

"Lemmy is great, you can choose whatever instance you want! But fuck you if you choose that one."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

No, don't recommend that one. I don't care if you're on LW, its just not a great idea to recommend it to newcomers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 30 minutes ago

Well when .ee defederates from the tankies they can join the adult community

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I was forced to go to Lemmy after the post-inauguration bloodbath, but Ive liked it a lot, more than Reddit in many ways. I was getting really tired of the bots, puns, Russian Propganda, novelty accounts, TROLLS, etc.

OTOH, I feel like I can speak much more freely on Lemmy. Even before I got permabanned, Reddits Free Speech mission had become non-existent.

The downside of Lemmy is that some of my favorite subs don't have an equivalent on Lemmy. For instance, the Reddit guitar subs are very active, but the few Lemmy guitar forums are nearly empty, with posts that are days, weeks, months, and even years, apart. I tried Googling "Lemmy Guitar" for ideas, and literally every link was about Motorhead.

So I welcome more quality Reddit immigrants, as long as all the Trolls stay over there.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 minutes ago

some comms you're gonna need to build

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Help build the guitar community, tell the people on reddit to come here instead. I will do the same.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

I can't, I'm permabanned. I tried getting around it several times, with new account names, but each one lasted a shorter and shorter time, as the algorithm honed in on me. My first alt lasted a few weeks, my last one was caught within an hour.

I do like the idea of building the Guitar community here at Lemmy, I'm just not familiar enough with the system to know how to do that. Do we start a new forum, or take over an existing one? Do we have just one and put EVERYTHING in there, or do we split it up between various subjects - general, lessons, performances, gear, amps, etc.?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How'd you manage to get banned?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I repeated an opinion that I'd made made times in the past without even a warning. The first time after the Inauguration, and I was permabanned, despite being a 12 year member with over 900K in karma.

I came to Lemmy, and discovered a lot of recently exiled Reddit vets with high volume posting accounts that were 10+ years old. We were the people that built Reddit over the last decade, with thousands of posts without getting banned, and suddenly ALL of us managed to say something bad enough in the same month to get permabanned.

It turned out February was a bloodbath, and an unknowm number of people were ejected, probably in the thousands. Recently we found out that Musk had been pressuring Spez, and obviously Spez capitulated, like so many other cowardly CEOs, abandoning their core Free Speech mission (which was becoming increasingly compromised anyway).

I'm still lurking over there, but the problems they were habing with puns, bots, TROLLS, Russian propaganda farmers, etc. have only gotten worse.

So now I'm at Lemmy, with a lot of other active ex-Redditors. It looks a lot like Reddit looked 12 years ago, when I started over there. I've seen many of the original posts that have become Reddit lore, and I'll miss what we built, but it's best days are definitely behind it. Now, we'll help energize Lemmy, and grow it into its own cultural powerhouse.

For me, that includes building an active, enthusiastic, supportive, POSITIVE guitar community here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 seconds ago

Lmao your case sounds very similar to me except I haven't been banned, but apparently mostly because I just lurk most of the time because reddit sucks more and more every day. The last straw was them getting rid of messages and not giving a good old.reddit alternative which made me realize they're going to kill old reddit soon, and I refuse to use their shitty new UI.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

First post on Lemmy! and oh my word… never seen such an eclectic mix of flavours of people, positions and politics in a long time.

This decentralised thing could actually be a good thing: pulls people away from bubbles and echo chambers!

Just remember to play nice :)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

i said it before but lemmy hates new users

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

I don't hate new users. Just, please recommend another instance to newcomers.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

lemmy.world does not allow the use of vpn to post. vpn is basic internet hygiene. do not go to lemmy.world if you care about that, our you will not be able to post.

you can join any federated instance instead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

vpn is basic internet hygiene

according to vpn companies

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 minutes ago

9 out 10 VPN companies recommend hiding your IP address.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

What do you want them to do? Select an instance at random, to spread them out?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

Yeah, this is just stupid. I wish a significant amount of redditors would go to lemmy.world

I mean, what do you want to tell them to join? Something called "mander.xyz"? "sopuli.xyz"? Maybe something like sh.itjust.works, jlai.lu or yall.theatl.social? I'd feel awkward enough telling them to join "Lemmy" then linking to lemm.ee. Sending them to lemmy.ml would just be cruel.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I picked lemmy.world because it sounded the least sus

[–] [email protected] 1 points 40 minutes ago (1 children)

As many others did, and many others will in the future.

Referring new users to a poorly named instance is a generally bad idea.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 27 minutes ago* (last edited 27 minutes ago)

It is the most popular and easy to understand, I've never been harassed by the instance admins or mods like in other communities. (.ml .blahaj .ee)

.world is the defalt instance and I can't find a better one to take its place

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

lemm.ee wasnt off to me but yeah lemmyworld seemed like the better just because it had lemmy in the name lmao, lemmy.ca maybe

[–] [email protected] 11 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I registered with blahaj first but I couldn't. Log in after a couple of months and never found a solution.

I came to Lemmy on my own but felt forced I to .World.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

There are other generalist or niche instances beyond .world

[–] [email protected] 0 points 26 minutes ago

Like the fascist ones who support authoritarianism. (.ml .hexbear .lemmygrad)

[–] [email protected] 23 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Can we recommend another generic instance? .world has a few problems plaguing it right now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

You're on one of them already, IMO

The other one I have in mind is mine. Lemmy.zip even DM a starter guide after sign up.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 21 hours ago

a generic instance is what most users need to actually make the move, if they like it or understand it better later they might choose a different insurance later, if not who cares they can still interact with others.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 day ago (16 children)

The cold truth is that to onboard people in greater numbers you need a default instance recommendation. You just do. You absolutely cannot ask potential new users (many of which will - hopefully - be casual and not so tech savvy) to sit down and undertake a multi hour research project into finding an appropriate small instance for them. You cannot reasonably expect people to look into uptime, funding and defederation lists to make an informed decision about where to register. You just need them through the door and posting and commenting and voting.

Making a new account somewhere else is super easy and painless once they're already here. We just need to get them here.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

As long as they have more than two brain cells to click together. If they can't get past the tiny technical barrier to entry then they can go somewhere else.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 16 hours ago

What you're saying is "reddit is fine, it can stay the front page of the internet, I don't mind"

[–] [email protected] 180 points 1 day ago (28 children)

Stop making good the enemy of perfect!

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I don't see the issue with recommending a generic instance, if your intend is to convert the generic user. It certainly is a better experience than saying 'ok, so choose what you like from this list of instances' and they don't even know the implications or what that means.

The overcomplication of Lemmy is an issue, and this behavior tries to avoid that.

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