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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Renaissance faire! Larping with my new sword

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Oh niiiiceee! What are you most looking forward to?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Probably mostly bed rotting lol. Not depression or anything, just because I can. Today is a cold, rainy day and I'm currently under a duvet scrolling. My cup of coffee is finished though, so I'll probably be dragging myself out of bed soon to refill.

Might find myself something to watch. I was reminded about Grimm earlier, which also reminded me of another show that I haven't finished, Wynonna Earp. So I'll probably be starting one of those two some time this weekend.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

This evening I will play some MTG (cube) with friends and tomorrow is my sister in law's birthday.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

It's Mothers' Day tomorrow, so I'll probably spend my Sunday doing stuff while my mum and sis deservedly do nothing, and my BIL and nephew undeservedly do nothing either. *sigh*

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I might look for some afternoon delight on a hookup app today. I’d really like to see my friend from work again, but she wants to take things slowly as far as our new FWB situation goes. After I get lucky, I’ll prob hang out with my mom who drove up from Arkansas yesterday to stay a week with me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm gonna start calling my wanking time afternoon delight that's an excellent phrase. Could things with your FWB get messy? They're great when you get them but they can get messy

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t think they will get messy. She’s poly, and I’m open to the idea as well. For us this is strictly physical. For me, that is what I’d like right now anyways. If things start get weird, we can always stop.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Ah her being poly is perfect, makes it far more likely to be successful. Really glad you've got her mate 🥰

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm seeing my friend shortly for coffee and natter. I've got a few chores to do as well. Then tomorrow it's exercise and chillax. I think I'm gonna watch s2 of house of dragon as well

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nice! Are you just starting S2? I really liked S1, but have stayed away because I heard S2 was divisive to say the least.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yep I'm gonna watch it later. I'm wary of it cos of the division but I don't feel passionately about the show, so if s2 is shit it's no big deal. Plus no matter how rubbish it is it's still gorgeous and has much totty

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Plus no matter how rubbish it is it's still gorgeous and has much totty

Lmao I just have to ask. Are you from the UK or the land down under? And what does "totty" mean in English?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Haha sorry yes am British. And "totty" means attractive person, for example "Angelina Jolie is top totty".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lol it's all good. I love some of the slang that I've seen, your comments can be quite colourful at times. Also, second time I've seen you mention Angelina Jolie, so I'll take your example as fact lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I like to talk about her, she's my future wife 😍

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I'm at my local mosque and will now have free dinner (East Asian timezones are rough) and go home.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Same thing we do every night, Pinky. Try and take over the world.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Going to check out a techno party tonight with a friend. We were talking to a couple guys at the last party we were at and they mentioned they were both DJs and promoters.

I always enjoy going out with my friend. She's way more talkative out of the two of us so I get to meet all these new people. I'm way more organized so I keep her on track and make sure she doesn't lose everything. Lots of other people seem to really enjoy our energy and vibes which also feels pretty good.

Looking forward to tonight :)