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If so, why and what do you tag them? What fits your bill as to tag and remember someone and to just leave it be?

Oh, bonus question, if you tag people, what am I tagged as? πŸ₯Ί

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

No, because since it's only a third party app implementation, tags wouldn't follow if I go from my phone to my desktop or any other device. It also just seems kinda... Strange?

Do you keep a journal of those you meet in-person? No judgement if you do, but if your reaction to that question was "Eww, no!" but also do user tagging I would be very curious as to what the difference is for you.

Anyways, for problematic people they either get blocked or banned (the egregious ones) which by nature of it being a first-party feature is already synced.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 58 minutes ago

That explains why I didn't know what the hell OP was taking about.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

I'll tag people when they've got into big arguments about something I find important. I might agree or disagree, but I'll tag them with whatever it was they felt strongly about.

I find it interesting to see if I caught them on a good or a bad day. Do I always dis/agree with them on all topics, or was it just that one? Did I judge them unfairly?

For example I have one person labelled "Too Angry". I can't remember what they were angry about that first time, but it's amazing how often they're still angry when I see them.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I should probably standardize my tags a bit, but like others I mainly use it to label argumentative people with mean names as a reminder not to argue with them and their dumbass\shithead\moron\cia-psyop views.

I should also start tagging locals when I suspect them. Maybe all 3 of us can have a Lemmy NOLA meetup sometime?

~~And no OP, you haven't "earned" a label yet.~~

I have now tagged you as "Label-Curious"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

I had thought whether there should be lemmy, pixelfed, and maybe mastodon for local cities.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I tagged one person who argued that calling someone by their preferred name and pronouns was infringing on his right to free speech. He was tagged as "Fucko". Every time I saw them in the comments, I would reply and refer to them as Fucko.

My intent was to get them to realize that it's not great to be called the wrong name every time you try to interact with people. The comments usually got pulled for being rude, which I understand, but I still feel it was for the greater good.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

Thank you. I try.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

I tag users with extreme views in any direction.

It helps to recognize them in most discussions.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I tag mostly for humor, things I think are funny, unique traits about a person that I've noticed are a pattern. Some examples

  • thinks the moon landing is fake
  • documents tankies
  • LOVES Taylor Swift
[–] MajorMajormajormajor 2 points 6 hours ago

thinks the moon landing is fake

Everyone knows the government asked Stanley Kubrick to fake the landing, but he's so dedicated to getting the most out of his actors that he build a real rocket and sent them to the moon.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I am not for the life of me seeing where to add a tag or a label. I checked in 3 different UIs, including the main one.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

I tag people that never fail to find something to argue about, obvious trolls, bad faith / sea lion conversationalists and so on. If I encounter them again and they show the same behaviour as a pattern, I fully block them.

I also use it for more fun stuff, like who is overly helpful, friendly or who recommended a good book. This way, if I see them again I get reminded of the positive interaction from before

edit: @[email protected] you might want to replace "tag" with "label" or something, people think you mean username @tagging and don't read the body of your post

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

What do you have against sealions? I would like to have a civil conversation about your statement. Would you mind showing me evidence of any negative thing any sealion has ever done to you? I'm just curious if you have any sources to back up your opinion.

(please tag me as generally not being serious. Have a spectacular day)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 hours ago
[–] JohnnyCanuck 7 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't think labels/tags are a feature in Voyager. So, no.

Edit: it is! See below.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (3 children)

They are. You just have to enable user tags in the Settings:

Let me know if I need to edit the tag I have for you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 35 minutes ago

Haha that last line

[–] JohnnyCanuck 5 points 8 hours ago

Nice, I keep learning things about this app!

[–] JohnnyCanuck 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Now tagged "Definitely has ten toes".

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Yes. Multiple reasons. Mostly to keep track of traits for good or bad, such as people who have proven to be aware of nuance and capable of level headed debate VS for example tankies and conspiracy theorists.

I also tag my fellow countrymen (There are dozens of us!)

You haven't earned a tag yet. That's not necessarily a bad thing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Only 1 person I've ever tagged, who posts content I'm not interested in seeing, but I don't feel like they deserved a straight-up block since they're still active in discussions elsewhere. My app allows me to filter them without blocking them so I don't see their posts but I still see their (default hidden) comments that I can open, so I just have a tag to remind me why.

Recurring trolls I just block, so I don't even see them to necessitate tags to begin with.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, bonus question, if you tag people, what am I tagged as? πŸ₯Ί

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 hours ago

tag: you're it

runs away

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Ha, two people I tagged so far in this thread. One for being a self-described and proud redpiller type (I don't remember the specifics on that one) and one for conversing in bad faith; that person kept arguing with well-sourced fact. Think flat-earther type stubbornness to acknowledge reality for the sake of being funny or edgy. There's a time and a place for that, but it was on a serious topic where everyone else was taking it seriously and trying to be genuinely helpful.

I haven't tagged you, OP. Yet.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 12 hours ago

I would if it was a native feature. I'd tag people "Made sense once, don't block"

[–] [email protected] 13 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I use Sync and yes. I tag transphobes, racists, obvious trolls, Zionists, MAGAts, and general chuds.

The vast majority of users you included I don't have tagged as anything

Edit: so far it looks like I have no one in this thread tagged as anything.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

No, because it's not a standard lemmy feature and I don't use 3rd party apps.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Why is it that you don't use 3rd party apps? I have no issue with Jerboa and have used it extensively, but I'm mainly wondering if there's something I'm missing with 3rd party Lemmy clients.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

Because the web interface is perfectly fine and I honestly don't see why every freaking website needs to be an app these days.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago

Yeah I completely agree when you put it that way. I've been doing this for the desktop web apps that I used to have installed (Discord, Spotify, Teams) accessing them via a browser instead.

I've been meaning to tidy up my phone anyway so I'll give the mobile Web UI a good go.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago

Why use an app for something that works perfectly fine via web browser as well? The less apps I have on my phone the better.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Unfortunately external software, boosts a good one

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago

Lol, I just saw your reply on n my inbox, and I thought you were that person I just responded to with a screenshot of me tagging them with "probably has ten toes"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago

I tag for any reason but lately are mostly people that I don't think they are trolls but they like to argue about anything, so I tag them as a warning to not look too much into it. I've also been tagging what I think might be bots before blocking, accounts with a hundred posts per day and a hundred comments per year.

[–] kionite231 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Am I tagged/labelled folks?

[–] corsicanguppy 1 points 7 hours ago

This is a detail I never want to know.

[–] MelonYellow 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

In addition to what everyone else said, I like tagging instance admins too. Only my instance admins are highlighted (red), but I like to know an admin when I see one in the wild lol.

I’ll also tag accounts that show a lot of specialized knowledge in their field of work. Like, β€œenvironmental scientist” or β€œairline pilot” or something like that.

But most of the time there are no tags, I’m just relying on my total upvote/downvote count towards the account to get some sense of who they are.

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