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[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 day ago (21 children)

I don’t understand how these kids get caught. They gotta be really slow or something.

I was caught 0 times as a teenager. My mom never found my porn.

My brother was caught a few times. My cousin was caught in the damn car on a family vacation with OTHER PEOPLE IN THE CAR just yanking his noodle under a blanket.

I was so cautious as a kid. I guess because I was caught and thoroughly shamed when I was about 4 years old. Maybe that’s why I never got caught when I was old enough for it to matter. That shame gave me a lifelong lesson.

I had a motion detecting toy dinosaur at the bottom of the stairs. When someone approached the stairs it would go, “raaaaaawr, raaaaaawr” and I’d be sitting at the foot of the bed reading a book by the time someone got upstairs.

If they suspected anything, didn’t matter. I was reading.

When I got high speed internet (as it was called in those days) I threw out the tapes and magazines. I had a separate hard drive I’d plug into my computer juuuuuust in case, and since I was always messing with and tearing into my computer, my mom never found anything. That drive had Linux, my mom was scared of Linux.

Now that I think about it, holy shit they fucked me up haha.

When they caught me as a little guy my mom said, “oh shamy, shamy.” And my dad said, “you keep messing with that thing and it’ll fall off and you’ll turn into a girl.” They spent the whole day giving me that, “oh you shameful creature” look.

Haha, man. Wow.

Yeah, maybe my people just messed me up.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yeah, maybe my people just messed me up.

I'm pretty sure we're now in a situation where most of our society's contention is driven by childhood-induced shame over sexuality in some form or another.

And there's not shit we can do about it because every time someone tries to make a campaign to encourage better sex-education, or even scarier, sex positivity among children, those people or groups get attacked for being pedos and predators.

This is going to be a social dividing line that gets sharper as time goes. There will be people who have a shred of intellectual capacity and haven't been hollowed out be capitalism, who raise their kids to be free from shame and shackles of toxic social norms and let them just live and discover on their own what sexuality means to them.

And the orcs, who want literal dark-ages levels of shame, hate and fear and of course power-imbalances as deeply rooted foundations to anything and everything related to sex, and they will only want children associated with sex when it involves controlling them or worse.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

As a parent, I didn’t want to mess my kids up and make them feel shame about natural things. I don’t know what the right way is, but I have tried to avoid that.

I have enough kids that I know some don’t do it early, some do.

My approach has been, “hey, that’s a private thing and no one here wants to be a part of it. Go to your room and shut your door.”

I have no idea if that’s right, and because of my own issues it doesn’t feel right, but that’s been my approach. I try to think about it logically and reasonably despite having to fight the feelings. My instinct was to say, “HEY! CUT IT OUT, THAT’S NASTY!!” All that did for me was give me an association with “nasty” and those feelings and all I had was my mind, and oh boy I wish I could erase the memory of the things I thought about as a kid.

My daughter is 16, and she’s overly open with me to a level that makes me uncomfortable because she isn’t ashamed of herself.

I also know that she will be healthy when she’s active because she feels comfortable talking to me.

She broke up with a girlfriend for pressuring her, and she told her boyfriend that she understands why he wants to do that and why he thinks about it, but she isn’t ready and if he can’t handle that he can go find a girlfriend who is on his level about it.

With my parents, you did not discuss such things. It was totally forbidden. As a result I had unprotected sex with multiple partners by the time I was 18 and I started when I was 13, started fooling around at about 9. I had some real weirdo adults in my life and I never talked to my parents about it because the thought of them knowing something so shameful about me was too heavy.

I had my first child at 16 years old. I do not believe that would have happened if I had access to education and I could have talked to my parents without feeling shame.

It feels like I’m going against my very nature when my daughter talks to me about things, but I grit my teeth and bare it, and she’s in a much safer and healthier place than I was at her age. She laughs and me because I blush and can barely look at her when she brings it up.

Maybe I’m doing one thing right in a sea of things I’m definitely getting wrong haha.

I believe we should feel shame about some things and that’s why we have to contend with it in the first place. We shouldn’t be ashamed of natural things though.

We’re here because of a long line of creatures and people banging. I don’t know why we freak out about it so bad.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

Let me tell you one thing: You're doing alright.

Having your kids feel safe enough to be open like that and yourself sticking to listening and being there is probably the best anyone can hope for.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"you keep messing with that thing and it'll fall off and you'll turn into a girl"

On one hand, fucking horrible thing to say on a child

On the other.. probably would not have the effect they would intend on a certin chunk of the population lmao

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

"So anyway, that was the beginning of my transition journey and also how I became an absolute master of giving HJs."

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Hahahaha, maybe they were onto something (this is a joke) -- I consumed way too much porn at way too young an age and I did turn into a girl! Dick never fell off though sadly

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don’t understand how these kids get caught. They gotta be really slow or something.

I was caught 0 times as a teenager. My mom never found my porn.

Modern operating systems are different than Windows 98. You think that you're sneeky and that nobody will find your porn folder and then your mom gets a "Popular files in your user group" mailing from "OneDrive Engagement" or a "Your browsing year wrap-up" by Microsoft Edge or a retargetting ad on the whole network because you looked at the Riley Reid fleshlight. Modern surveillance capitalism is really hard to escape.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 22 hours ago

Damn, man. That really sucks.

That’s really depressing.

I always figured we’d go down this road, and in a bout of psychosis when I was younger I even lost my head over it and we really are there now.

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[–] OminousOrange 19 points 1 day ago

A 30 year old friend of mine didn't know about incognito mode. A certain subreddit popped up, on his projector screen, as a recommendation when we were searching for a sports stream to watch. I don't think anyone else noticed or would really know what the sub was, but I later casually mentioned this really cool browser feature to use in case you need to search something weird.

I learned one shouldn't assume that everyone is familiar with all the digital tricks to hide what they'd prefer others not see.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago

You had enough motivation and technical knowledge, that's why. Most people don't even bother having separate storage with dual booting.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That teen needs to drop the mom in an old-age home

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The plantiff is unnamed. This is a manufactured case to test getting the supreme court to pass a blanket ban on all porn.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

They are from my city, if they are a real person, I'll make it known.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

hentaicity.com is going to be rough to live down.

[–] ILikeBoobies 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Imagine going to school if you were this kid

L(° O °L)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 21 hours ago

With a mom like this he's probably homeschooled.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is this an actual law suit by an actual person or from a Jane doe? If this is an actual person, this mom needs to start parenting their kid instead of making everyone else responsible for her kid.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I assume the line of thinking is: 1) white people numbers are decreasing, 2) people are not having children, 3) they use protection or not interested because they can watch porn, 4) ban porn means more teenagers getting pregnant??

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

it also works the other way around, interestingly:

  • future is shit
  • no vision
  • nobody wants to have kids anymore
  • women abstain from dating
  • we have a loneliness crisis?!?
[–] [email protected] 92 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I can imagine having a mother like that would make it so that you can't enjoy life, damn.

[–] [email protected] 357 points 1 day ago (7 children)

“Q.R., using his mother’s old laptop, had unfettered access to the internet and began searching for hardcore pornography,” says the court. His mom claims this led to “pain, suffering, disability, disfigurement, and mental anguish; psychological injury; past and future love of enjoyment and pleasure of living.”

It's not the internet making your son feel those things, it's you.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

It's not even real. It's a fabricated story to push an agenda of a special interest group.

Edit: to clarify, the news story is real, the mom's story isn't. It's just a fiction to push the agenda.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Damn, he's Disabled and Disfigured now?

...What was he doing?

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[–] [email protected] 191 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Why is the mom not responsible for giving her kid internet access.

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[–] [email protected] 147 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Disfigurement? Kid's doing something wrong.

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[–] [email protected] 272 points 1 day ago (2 children)

“Mom” isn’t doing this unless she’s uber rich. Someone is bankrolling her to try to set precedent.

[–] [email protected] 238 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (13 children)

Ding Ding Ding! You Win!

Mom is joined in her lawsuit by the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE).

https://endsexualexploitation.org/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Center_on_Sexual_Exploitation

The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE), previously known as Morality in Media and Operation Yorkville, is an American conservative anti-pornography organization.[2][3] The group has also campaigned against sex trafficking, same-sex marriage, sex shops and sex toys, decriminalization of sex work, comprehensive sex education, and various works of literature or visual arts the organization has deemed obscene, profane or indecent. Its current president is Marcel Van der Watt. The organization describes its goal as "exposing the links between all forms of sexual exploitation".[4]

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[–] [email protected] 121 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Imagine gooning so hard that your mom makes you famous.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

The underage kid is using chaturbate to talk to live models, but of course people are hating the mom for being a lazy Karen.

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[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 day ago (19 children)

His first name starts with a Q?! That poor kid, imagine getting your porn preference blasted into the news by your mom and then you also have a Q in your name. Mom should be sued for child abuse

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago

Mum wanted to make it everyone else's problem that she can't have a frank discussion about sex with her own son so probably been making poor judgements all the way through

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 day ago

I hope those aren't his real initials because it seems like there's more than enough information to identify him between the article and complaint filing. Poor kid doesn't deserve to be dragged into this.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wouldn't he have to put in a fake birth date if it asked him to verify his age?

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 day ago (6 children)

conservatives are pushing for full ID submission.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

i had left my VPN on in a location in the US and was shocked that i had to enter in ID to visit a sire.

i dont even have to give my ID to government websites who the hell is doung that

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