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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

rowling is a transphobe, but gaiman is like weinstein a sex pest. she played it carefully for decades before coming out, when she had built a large amount of fans and support, much like lewis CK, the cancelling dint end his career so to speak, he moved all online before it got worst.

also transphobia has massive support from right wingers.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago (7 children)

Doesn't season 2 of the sandman come out in a couple weeks? Doesnt really seem like he's being boycotted.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

I can't tell if I'm allowed to be excited about it because I love Sandman but Gaiman is a creep.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

it's easy to complain about death of the author when you don't care about their work.

but even you do, even just enjoying it a bit, it's a bit harder.

you can pirate it, you get to enjoy it and they get no revenue from it. but then engaging with the content is free advertising, so just watch it and keep it to yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

While still a bad person, what Gaiman did limited to a number of people, not a number of countries, also his work is actually good, not half-baked garbage only held up by nostalgia.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (6 children)

If anyone is looking for some ~~good~~ fucking amazing books by an awesome and genuinely fun and good natured dude, check out Jason Pargin, he is awesome and not problematic and his books are all bangers, and he also enabled and actively supports the careers of many other super awesome and creative people. Also, listen to Bigfeets.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I've been wanting to read his books for a while. I have quite a few that I own and still need to read, though. Any particular book recommendations from him? John Dies at the End? Zoey Ashe series?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

The very same

[–] [email protected] 10 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

If we're recommending authors, my favorite is Jasper Fforde. He wrote this book called Shades of Grey (which unfortunately came out around the same time as that book) that's about people who can only see one color (sorry, colour), and the hue that they can see determines their social standing. I have been waiting over a decade for the sequel and he just released it (Red Side Story) last year. My brain has been bad at letting me read books, so it sits on the shelf but I loved the first one.

I really hope there's no problematicism around him (as that's the subject of the thread), but reading his books it's hard to imagine there could be.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I also love Jasper Fforde, and it is because he was guest of honour at a Jodi Taylor event that I also got into her books. She writes a series about time-travelling historians which I would recommend.

She also writes at a much faster pace than Fforde does these days, so that's a plus. I was never half as annoyed waiting for GRR Martin to write A Dance With Dragons as I was waiting for Red Side Story!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

not problematic

I love the guy but I'm sure you could find an instance of him being problematic. Like his pen name, David Wong, is questionable given he's not asian.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Stephen King is Scots-Irish and he used the pen name Richard Bachman despite not being German.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

there is a long and respected history of mocking germans.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (7 children)

He stopped using it for that very reason, and took accountability. People are allowed to self correct, if he understands the problem with what he did and course corrected without being called out for it what would throwing more stones accomplish?

Edit: Also, not a big enough deal to say you shouldn't read his books. Especially considering the narrative reason as to why he was using it.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Maybe not the most popular idea here, but I think there are a lot less Rowling fans, and a lot more Harry Potter fans. After all she didn't really write anything noteworthy after the Harry Potter books. And the HP themed stuff like Cursed Child and Fantastic Beasts she did after the main series is let's call it controversial, she's a one hit wonder. Gaiman wrote a lot more and had a lot more different main characters in different settings, as far as I know, I didn't read anything of his stuff.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 21 hours ago

I've read a bunch from both authors and think your point checks out. Gainan has much more variety. I'm not sure it matters though.

My guess, worthless as it is, is that Gaiman's best works celebrated the marginalized. Loved them and taught you to love them. Respected them. His work taught people that his actions are terrible.

On the other hand, Stardust. Maybe my guess is totally wrong. Shrug

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There's just so much entertainment and incredible creativity out there. I genuinely don't understand allegiances like this.

I love Sandman but tbh fuck that dude and I'll go read one of other million alternative stories that often are just as good if not better.

The competition in creative industry is just insane and switching is basically free compared to any other industry. Like, good luck switching from John Deere if you're a farmer but Harry Potter fans have zero barriers and still can't do it. Spineless, weak people.

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[–] [email protected] 219 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Notice how a lot of folks aren't aware of the disgusting things Gaiman did, specifically BECAUSE he went quiet. Rowling doesn't want to go quiet because she's a crusader: discriminating against trans people is a goal for her.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 22 hours ago

Yeah, Gaiman keeps a low profile because he wants people to forget what he did. Rowling is proud of being a hateful cunt and invests time and money in proliferating hate.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Also I actually have less of an issue with other people buying Gaiman's work. I have no love for the man and won't buy anything myself again, but if you buy something of his, the money goes to him, and stops there. Rowling directly funds bigotry; the money people spend on Harry Potter is in a direct pipeline to funding the suffering of innocent people.

At the very least, before everything happened with Gaiman, he was known for having positive philanthropic ventures. Even if you gave him money, a sizable portion went to him, another portion went on to better the world. I'd presume he still supports these trusts and charities too.

[–] [email protected] 98 points 1 day ago

yes, she sees herself as a kind of martyr and victim of a witch-hunt, which does change how she responds to the cultural backlash she receives for her behavior.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago (5 children)

People got into Gaiman at an older age than they got into HP. So HP is more deeply ingrained

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (4 children)

At 13, I read Ender's Game and was absolutely obsessed. Read a ton of other OSC books at that age and it took me decades to rid myself of all the veiled mormon morality in his books.

As an adult, I never had one hesitation about disavowing him. I re-read the Ender saga a few years back to see how it held up (it didn't hold a candle to my teen-self's impression), but I had no problem not paying for new copies of anything that would pay OSC.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

OSC was the first author I read who conveyed OCD on the page (the wood grain lines in Xenocide). Hard to completely disavow that.

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[–] [email protected] 95 points 1 day ago (18 children)

I mean, I still love American Gods, Good omens and Neverwhere. I just stopped recommending them to people.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago (5 children)

hp was a big part of my pre transition life when i was in the closet. i hate jk so i dont buy new things but i still do reread my existing books. leaky, pottercast, and starkid were the first places i fit in.

but i dont actively seek out pro rowling hp fandom tho. fuck rowling.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Sort of off topic. I think learning new things about an author can make re-reading their works interesting.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh look, another barely concealed fetish!

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I misread this as accusatory to the commenter lol

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Supporting Gaiman is supporting a rapist; it will negatively impact a couple people directly.

Supporting Rowling is much worse.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (8 children)

such incredible insight, Rowling as an anti-trans activist is engaged in a genocidal movement which has of course a much larger scale of both number of people harmed and the severity of that harm

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[–] KindnessIsPunk 37 points 1 day ago

Harry Potter is so ubiquitous that most people who consume it do so without really knowing much about the author beyond their name and then there's a decent chunk that don't care because it doesn't affect them and they think it's culture war stuff that doesn't matter.

Making people care about things that don't directly affect them is always the hardest task.

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