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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 day ago

Violent losers are still losers.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

18 year-old ... "adolescent"

Which is it?

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Both.

In civilised countries you can still be tried as a child when you are deemed too immature.

Don't know how it is in France but in Germany this can be the case until you are 27 years old. So while you are for most purposes an "adult" from 18 onwards even a 26 year old can be seen as adolescent. Because the law knows that not all people are the same.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have to agree with this. I am nearly 50, but I was incredibly immature when I was younger compared to a lot of my peers. And I think individually people need to be assessed based on their maturity levels. It was what it was, and I can't change it, but my circumstances led to that situation.

Plenty of counselling and an interesting life, which we all have probably had in our own way, has put me in step with the majority of my peers now, but I do believe that people need to be seen as individuals.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Same. People age quite differently. I didn't start puberty until I was 16. I didn't get attracted to girls until I was 17. Much later than my friends.

I got a job at a pizza shop when I was 20, and I made friends with the 15+16yo employees there, I got along much better with them than people my own age. I can see how that's was potentially creepy, looking back on it, but it seemed normal enough at the time, those people were my good friends.

I matured very slowly. I didn't graduate uni until I was 29. I'm now 39, physically I look like I'm 30, mentally and psychologically I feel like I'm 30.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It could be a translation thing. In certain parts of France, "ados" is a bit of a catch-all term for anyone in teenager or young adults years. It's not strictly defined, but would explain the presence of the word in an English translation.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

It's basically the translation to teenager, so up to 20, over 20 they could still be called "grand ado" (big teen) if they're still not really mature.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago