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[–] [email protected] 204 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Since there is insufficient cell differentiation at conception to produce any reproductive cells, does that mean that according to the white house, all people are legally non-binary now?

[–] [email protected] 89 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Female gametes are expressed first, so we've all been forced to be women

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Are they expressed AT CONCEPTION?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

This is what is expressed during conception.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Who would have thought that Trump would be the first female president of the United States

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Actually, he's the first agender president. Embryos don't produce any gametes at conception. The idea that embryos are all female is a myth spread by people who don't believe in nonbinary sex.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A little more seriously, we in fact start as non-binary instead of as female as it's usually said. How nobody said that before?

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[–] [email protected] 152 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

YOU KNOW WHO I WORRY ABOUT COMING INTO WOMEN'S BATHROOMS, CONSERVATIVES?

CIS MEN.

I HAVE LITERALLY NEVER HAD A TRANS WOMAN MAKE ME FEEL UNSAFE IN THERE. BUT I HAVE HAD CIS MEN FOLLOW ME IN AND ATTEMPT ASSAULT.

MEN DON'T NEED TO GO THROUGH THE CONVOLUTED STEPS OF TRANSITIONING TO GAIN ACCESS TO WOMEN'S BATHROOMS, YOU FUCKING IDIOTS

MAYBE ADDRESS THAT FIRST? NO???

HOLY FUCKING SHIT

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

They believe that anyone can claim they're a woman now and that's it. And once it's done they can just walk into women's bathrooms. They're just telling on themselves, projecting on trans people. They're just sex obsessed freaks, all of them.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know. I was raised in a fundie church. I did not escape unscathed. They're fucked up perverts.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I grew up in a fundie church as well. No one escapes unscathed. Glad you got out. I hope you're able to heal. Fuck Bill Gothard!

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I've said that if I was wealthy, I would force legislation that was trans friendly by (as a cis woman) going into women's bathrooms in Congress, standing on toilets, and staring at women.

Women's bathrooms don't have urinals! There's no reason for anyone to be afraid of anyone seeing anything in there, unless they stand on toilets, and Im fully of the opinion that the gender of the person doing that has nothing to do with how creepy it is!!

Maybe if you're actually worried, all bathrooms should be, I dunno, gender neutral with full doors that close all the way? For maximum safety?

And I believe nothing can get that point across quite like demonstrating that I, as an almost middle aged, fat woman who looks like I could safely run for a Rwpublican seat, standing on toilets and staring at people.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Maybe if you're actually worried, all bathrooms should be, I dunno, gender neutral with full doors that close all the way? For maximum safety?

They made a bathroom at my university that’s gender neutral with stalls that are fully ceiling to floor with no gaps in the door.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

And this is how it should be everywhere!

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

wait ... so if I just walk through the door I'm suddenly in the women's bathroom? no force field?

[–] [email protected] 99 points 1 month ago (6 children)

So we’re all female. Neat!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

I've always wondered what it's like.

Turns out, (according to the US government) I was experiencing it all along.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

I wish at least I was female

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 month ago

“You know what we mean!”

So we’re back to gender being a social construct then.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 month ago (2 children)

What about people who produce neither?

[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 month ago (3 children)

They usually handwave and claim "they don't count" because they can't reproduce, assuming that somehow means they can be ignored.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

i don't think embryos produce any reproductive cells right away so that handwave would have to cover... everyone

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Embryos can't produce gametes. Everyone is agender now.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago

Republicans showing once again their cognitive prowess.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 month ago

It’s the gamete crowd, but adapted for the crowd that can’t spell “gamete”.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Maybe I'm a late bloomer but I started producing reproduce cells long after conception

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 month ago (1 children)

when the fascists accidentally forcefem all of america:

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago (2 children)

*neuter

Embryos don't produce gametes of any type.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Alright then, take your pills, Alice.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is... is that the actual wording?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Holy shit. Surely those who drafted this realize the importance of wording in legal documents. What an egregious error.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Why would you think that? These lines were written by fascists to appeal to morons. Proper wording only matters for those of us that live in reality.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

You’re giving them more credit than they’ve shown.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm no biologist, but I'm pretty sure nobody produces gametes at conception. If you want to be pedantic, oocytes form before birth, but actual sperm and eggs don't show up till puberty (feel free to correct me).

Now, I would LOVE if we don't assign gender till puberty, but I still don't like the method.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I would think "if you have a Y chromosome, you're male" would be a better definition to fit what they're trying to do

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

There's like a not insignificant 1% of people who are intersex where looking at chromosomes can get tricky.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

As if the right would care.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Chromosomes are almost never tested at birth, and so 99% of people walking around don’t actually know what chromosomes they have. Enforcing any law based on chromosomes for purposes like this would be nearly impossible.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

For fucks sake.

For fucks sake.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (4 children)

This is either AI slop. Ignorant because they think babies are made by god and immediately have genitals. Deliberately as anti science as possible to muddy things further.

Probably all 3.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

I guess the nicest thing I could say about this is that I'm glad that if they're going to be evil, at least they're bad at it.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I recommend everyone visit the DMV as soon as possible to change their license. It's an order from the commander in chief.

Now that I think of it: every DMV should be only be able to issue licenses with a female designation. Facts and law suites don't care about your feelings, snow flakes.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

Why didn't they say egg and sperm lol

"On" means a circuit belonging, at time of observation, to the larger number.

"Off" means a circuit belonging, at time of observations, to the nothing number.

These people are on a hilariously dumb level of evil. They can't be for real with this.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

But at conception aren’t all fetuses female? Isn’t it a few weeks in or more that some become male? That’s at least partly why females have clitorises and males have nipples…

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Fetuses don't exist yet at conception. We're all officially enbies now.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

The culture war is refuelled, so we can be distracted from the grand scale theft by the oligarchs.

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