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[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Rarely did. I was briefly legal at 18, legal for 6 days at 19, then had to wait two years. However no one really cared back then.

About 10 years ago I got carded at a baseball game. Even worse that’s when I found out my drivers license expired, so they wouldn’t sell me a beer despite my obviously being well over. To get some amusement out of the fiasco, I slipped my 21 year old coworker a $10 to buy me a beer

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

When I stopped acting like a little bitch buying booze.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Pretty much always still am.

Cashiers used to be able to use their judgement and not ask for ID if the customer appeared to be older than 27. But I guess there was some abuse of that, so now they card you even if you're clearly 100. The ABC (alcoholic beverage commission) will even sometimes do stings to see if the cashier asks for ID, and stores can even lose their license to sell alcoholic beverages if they get caught.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

When I worked in retail locations that sold alcohol and tobacco, the official policy was that you didn't have to ask for ID if the customer appeared to be older than 40. That was 20+ years ago, though, and it's possibly a regional or company-specific thing.

These days, it seems like most cashiers at most places that I shop have a blanket policy to check ID and enter it into the register regardless of the customer's age. So, I'm thinking that their training is leaning heavily towards scaring them into IDing everyone. It's a legit concern, though. The alcohol enforcement stuff is serious and some of the people doing that job will try to trick cashiers.

Your experience reminds me of my own: When I was younger, I rarely got carded. Now that I'm well above the legal age, my ID is checked much more consistently and frequently.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

A lot of places ask anyone and everyone to provide ID which I don't think was the case in years past. My wife and I are 40 and we still get carded frequently and I don't think it's because we look underage.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

They never really started :(

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Cashiers still ask me, but restaurants and bars have not asked me, even when I was just 22.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I haven’t gotten carded since I was about 35. I have visibly graying hair, a receding hairline, and graying stubble.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I guess about 30.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

In my hometown, which has a large state university, they ask everyone no matter what age. Moved to a city about an hour away where there is a small university around age 23 and have never been asked for ID there.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

They still ask.

At my job the computer won't let me finish the transaction until I type in the customer's birthday. I assumed they were all like that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I always pull it out and stick it on top of the alcohol so they never have an opportunity not to ask. They can get in trouble for not checking id (or they can in my state) so its kinda a polite thing to do.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I have only bought alcohol legally one time. It was at a burlesque show and it was for the MC who was a friend and forgot their money. I was in my late 30s and was not carded.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I live near a college town and closer to it, everyone gets carded all the time. Some places must have not done even that well enough because at some places you had to have your id scanned or sign a log swearing it is, in fact, your id.

Outside of that, once I started showing grey.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I'm albino and have had facial hair since I was 13. I think I got asked a few times over the years since turning 21, but it was always rare.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Depends on the place. My go-to grocery store always asks. Convenience stores don't.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m 40ish. Hasn’t happened yet outside of the cashiers at my home grocery who know me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago
  1. I look older than I am. Didn't start buying the stuff until I was 21 and never been asked for my id to buy it. But I have been asked when buying cigarettes so make that make sense.
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Around 34 years old when I’d put on some weight and my face finally aged.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I've been asked a few times but even in my early 20s it was rare to be asked for my ID.