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I'm sorry but it doesn't make sense TO ME. Based on what I was taught, regardless of the month, I think what matters first is to know what day of the month you are in, if at the beginning, in the middle or at the end of said month. After you know that, you can find out the month to know where you are in the year.

What is the benefit of doing it the other way around?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I think it's just the way we talk. It's just more common for us to refer to a date in speech like "Today is June 1st". Whereas other countries would say "Today is the 1st of June". Neither is wrong, it's just how things are said.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

It's more efficient to say June 1st. I suppose you could say 1st June though. Not sure if anyone does that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

They say it "June 1st", as opposed to "1st of June", so it makes sense to write it that way. That, mate, was a hard lesson to learn for me lol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

I say June 2nd of 2025

I type 2025-06-02

Handwritten it's 2-June-2025

I'm from before 2000 and the turn to years being so small broke me, it used to be so clear which number was the year with just 2 digits, and day, month, year is sorting from smallest unit to biggest, it has logic. But then for awhile you could have a 04, an 05, and an 06 and I was working with other countries, it wasn't at all clear which was year month or day, so I started sandwiching the month in the middle as a word when handwriting dates and using 4 digit year, and year month day sorts like a dream for filenames.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Context clues.

[–] melsaskca -5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

For no other reason than to be different and contrary. Metric system anyone?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Are you saying we Americans do things in objectively worse ways, just to remind everyone what we have the freedom to be confidently wrong?

Because I can confidently tell you there's no examples of us doing that. (This is sarcasm, intended to amuse you.)

[–] [email protected] -3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

The month first is best because consider what happens if a message gets cut off. You might get: "You'll be flying to New York on the first of ..." or "You'll be flying to New York on June..."

The first message doesn't tell you anything useful. Do you need to buy shorts or a parka? Do you have months to prepare or are you leaving in a few hours? Could this be an april fools joke? It's a 1/12 chance. Totally useless.

Second message, sure the details are unclear but at least you know what to pack and that you need to hurry about getting the rest of the message.

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Historically, I don't know, but personally, I prefer YYYY-MM-DD style dates since they sort naturally in basically all computer software without having to think about it.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Anyone who doesn't use ISO 8601 is wrong.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

There are plenty of other scenarios with a similar pattern of starting at the larger scale and then the specific.

TV shows: Season 2 Episode 9

Theatre: Act one, scene 3

Biblical: Book of John 3:16

Other books: Chapter 9, page 125.

Address: 123 Main St, Apt #2

Phone numbers: country code (area code) locality-individual

I'm not saying either is right or wrong, but there are precedents for either way.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Perhaps the most relevant of all: time of day. 9:30. Hours first, then minutes. I'm not from a location that does month-day ordering, but I think largest to smallest works excellently for time measurement, hence ISO 8601.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

9:30 and 21:30, please

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[–] swagmoney 30 points 1 week ago
[–] slothrop 26 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I'm guessing, but it's likely because the spoken form for a date is normally, 'May 31st, 2025" vs "The 31st of May, 2025", hence 05/31/25 v 31/05/25.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

I once did some research on this exact topic, and my findings pretty much mirror your guess.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm a fan of ISO-8601 which is YYYY-MM-DD. When context is known, dropping the year on something is fine (i.e. if I post a schedule saying 'summer 2025 schedule', I don't need to start every date on it with 2025). Japanese does this as well (and I think Chinese and Korean, but someone is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong there).

If the year and month are already known, just using the day is fine as well (a calendar doesn't write the full date in every square). Having it in that order makes sense to me.

MM-DD-YYYY is right out, though, so I only agree with the 'muricans on the MM-DD part.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Same. Keeps my reports nice and organized.

[–] uhmbah 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Canada's government has this standard, YYYY-MM-DD, but even they are inconsistent.

The rest of Canada often follows America's MM-DD-YYYY.

It's the inconsistency that's ridiculous.

[–] GreyEyedGhost 1 points 6 days ago

Be the change you want to see. I use month names or ISO 8601 in anything written, have been for a year to the point where using month names is more accidental than anything else. If anyone asks, I mention it's government standard. Hopefully, the ambiguous date forms die out faster than the Imperial system.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Whoo. ISO-8601 fan club. Its so much easier for computers to sort dates in that format. I insist on using it for documents at work and Excel even handles it better with less formatting issues. I do wish they covered it in schools earlier, its neat, logical and works best when everyone is on the same page.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm sure the history is that, for most daily purposes, it was useful to know both. Knowing the larger element (the month) first sets the context for the smaller detail. For instance, saying I met someone for dinner on December 12 gives you the broader context (e.g. the season, possible relevant events) before the smaller detail of the day.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think of it as, if you got shot halfway through telling me the date of something, "December" on its own is more useful information than "12". Technically, "12" narrows it down to fewer possible dates, but it could be at any time of year, while December only happens once a year, in March or whatever.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

Every digital clock displays hours:minutes:seconds. Largest to smallest. I see no reason not to follow the same pattern with the date year/month/day.

This is also how my phone time stamps a photo - year/month/day/hours/minutes/seconds.

This seems very logical to me.

[–] HungryJerboa 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Everybody says this, but I keep seeing mm/dd/yyyy from north American sources, and dd/mm/yyyy from pretty much everywhere else.

Why are we stupid

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I like it. Many agree that YYYY-MM-DD is superior. It also reflects informational entropy. Each additional piece of information narrows down the search space most efficiently.

But in normal conversation, chances are we’re talking about the current year. So it makes sense to skip the year, or save it for last.

Word by word, if someone says the month first, I’m already able to know roughly when this date is. Then the information is hammered out with the day.

If someone says the day first, it barely helps — could literally be in any month of the year. It leaves too much unknown until the next piece of information is received.

[–] GreyEyedGhost 1 points 6 days ago

Spoken language is already inefficient, which is why we use so many shortcuts in it. If I'm texting someone about an upcoming event, I might also just use the day of the month or the weekday (wings on Fri?). But if I'm writing an email, signing a document, or doing something else that might be referenced weeks, months, or years in the future, ISO 8601 is the way to go.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I personally prefer yyyy-mm-dd, as the Japanese do, which also puts month before day. I think it's because they tend to prioritize history, so that makes sense. Year gives a historical context, month gives the season, while day is kind of arbitrary when talking about historical events. Day will matter most if I'm making short term plans, though, so I certainly see the appeal for day to day life.

Depending on what you're doing, one will matter more. Precision matters more the more fine tuned the situation.

Think of it like hours vs minutes vs seconds. If I'm just thinking vaguely about the time of day, hour gives me most of the context. If I'm meeting someone or baking cookies, minutes matter a lot more but seconds is a bit too specific. If I'm defusing a bomb? Seconds matter.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

You can also sort files named using this format alphabetically and they'll still be chronologically correct.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

In normal conversation, it's more common (at least here) to say "May 31st" than "the 31st of May." I think the order of the numerical only dating system is just reflecting that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Then again, you also write $5 but say it five dollars. The way something is said can be different from how it is written.

[–] GreyEyedGhost 1 points 6 days ago

The French, at least in Canada, put the currency symbol after the number.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Sure, but the $ is signifying the following numbers refer to money. And people can write it differently than they say it. I will say "June 1st" much, much more often than "the 1st of June", but I will also almost always write it "01 June ".

But the reason it is much more common in the USA to write dates as "June 1, " is because that is how it is often spoken here. That doesn't need to be consistent across other speech and writing patterns, it's just how it developed. Probably goes back to the printing press like a lot of the other oddities in writing here...

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Because the month tells me more about how far in the future something is. If I have an appointment on the 12th of July, there's not much information in knowing it's on the 12th. 12th of what? But it's in July, so between 1 and 2 months in the future. If I need more info, then I'll pay attention to the day. So in order of information given.

Historical dates are similar, except I really just need (roughly) the year, and then a month if that's relevant. Knowing the exact date of a historical event is just showing off. But if you know the month, you know what season it was, what the weather was probably like. Was it planting/growing/harvest time? You can guess at a lot of things with just the month.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Because fuck you, that’s why

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Why do you use 60 seconds in a minute and not an even 100? Why use randomly sized calendar months? Why do you say doce instead of diecidos?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (10 children)

It's inherited from a historic convention from the UK. Historically the rationale was that the month was more important than the year, so they put it first, although this has no useful consistency or order to it.

Unfortunately, kind of dumb decisions from the past tend to stick and keep existing for an unnecessary long time because people get used to them and then never change them. Popularity or habit can beat reason, objectivity etc...

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