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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (3 children)

We need to ban orginized religion.

These genital obsessed freaks need to be shamed back into the shadows.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Just threaten to post their browser history. That should shut them up.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

We also need people to start dressing up as ICE and disappearing prominent conservatives.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Even the largest pervert isn't as concerned with sexuality as much as the average religious dummy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

My favorite resturants are the ones that just removed both signs and have bathrooms.

Which one is male or female? Who knows!? Doesn't matter.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is the point of these laws. It's not to protect people it's to make existing in public impossible for trans people

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It's not about bathrooms, it's certainly not about "protecting" anyone. They do not give two shits about actual assaults against women and children.

It's about sending a political message, a threat against a marginalized group that can be demonized for not fitting social norms, but is also not strong enough or connected enough to push back and rile up public support. Something like saying "You're not allowed to use the bathroom" is a deeply personal and sensitive topic that will absolutely crush someone of any group and it's prone to not getting the public attention that it needs. I mean, who wants to talk about how they need to shit?

It's been wildly successful too, because the people who actually care spend all their time in social-media echo-chambers, even like this one, instead of doing community organization and activism. Even suggesting it will probably draw in opposition here from people who feel helpless. And yeah, they'll be right, it's much, much harder now because we didn't do this shit back when the playing field was more level and this was just 4-chan trolls and reddit communities and there wasn't billions of dollars invested in the success of the of the distraction-campaign.

We can still turn this around but we can't do it the same way. We have to fight far, far dirtier, we have to make bot-armies, troll accounts, we have to put ourselves at risk, we have to directly target efforts towards libs and neo-libs who maybe, sorta, kinda care about issues that impact other citizens, but need a swift kick in the ass to realize they're on the wrong side of history. We have to project the image of mass-support at any opportunity. When you are talking or arguing about these issues, you have to do the same thing they did, which is play up that your movement is gaining support and momentum broadly, not withering under blistering hate and capitalist efforts. We have to be less afraid of wild rhetoric and playing uncivil. Be less afraid of negative attention. We have to call people bad words and be less afraid of offending our own side, because there are a lot of people on our side who aren't really.

We have to actually argue with our shitty uncle and not "let it go." We have to make friends in real-space and we have to hang out in public and be seen and stand united against hateful monsters.

We have to be that group of San Diego citizens who SHAMED a bunch of modern klansmen (ICE agents) into retreating from their neighborhood.

All the hard shit. You have to do that. You have to get real social real fast. Yeah, it does suck.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Yeah! It’s why a lot of the times when I think about leaving the house, I just don’t! The stochastic terrorism has worked!

[–] MystikIncarnate 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Gotta go put on your lady face and feel uncomfortable to use the restroom as a trans man now.

Can't make the straights feel things!

And we certainly can't have any ungendered bathrooms in public spaces. No siree.

/s (obv.)

Also speaking as a cis straight male, this is fucking stupid. Use whatever bathroom you feel comfortable going into, don't be a creep and certainly don't rape anyone.... Those directives may be targeted at different groups of people.... Just saying.

Be who you want to be.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The American obsession with bathroom segregation is weird. In other countries, women will sometimes use the men's bathroom when there's a long line in front of the women's and not the men's. Fathers needing to change a diaper on their kid sometimes use the baby changing station in the women's bathroom if that's where it's located (though that's increasingly being fixed).

This is not something that requires excessive legislation if you can avoid obsessing over other people's genitals.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

America has terrible brain worms and a market set up so people are paid to make them worse not fix them

[–] [email protected] 361 points 3 days ago (1 children)

While peeing, a man who called himself the bar owner came into the women’s restroom and looked over Strobel’s stall.

This is the crime.

[–] [email protected] 66 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Gonna guess not having a stall is against ADA laws also. Sounds like that bar needs to go.

[–] [email protected] 48 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There was a stall. He looked over it.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It seems there was a stall in the women's restroom, but not the men's

[–] [email protected] 52 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

…where would men poop if no stall? Poo urinal?

Edit: read more myself, and now my question is towards the establishment instead. What the fuck?

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[–] [email protected] 322 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Cruelty is the point. They don't want trans people to exist so they'll make that existence as bad as possible.

[–] [email protected] 183 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

He was going out of his way to do everything “right” too.

He couldn’t use the men’s, because it was a trough set up. He talked to an employee, made sure that no one was in the women’s.

And then the cops had the gall to accuse him of being drunk and disorderly?

[–] [email protected] 40 points 3 days ago

IIRC, he was the designated driver too.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 2 days ago (3 children)

why does anybody give a fuck what bathroom you use in the first fucking place

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Because you might be a sexual predator, and a law banning trans people from bathrooms will definitely stop a rapist.

In other words, irrationality.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (4 children)

In the US, bathrooms didn't used to even have gender.

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[–] [email protected] 164 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (10 children)

I already read this story yesterday. The title here is wrong in two ways:

  1. He used the women's restroom after trying the men's and finding there were no stalls, only urinals. The motivation was not the law, but necessity.
  2. South Carolina doesn't even have one of those shitty laws (yet)
[–] [email protected] 133 points 3 days ago (3 children)

A men's bathroom without stalls? How is this even a thing? Where are they supposed to poop in that establishment?

[–] [email protected] 42 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 50 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Fellas, is it gay to poop while sitting down?

[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If god didn't want my buttcheeks poopy, then why did he make them hairy?

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 3 days ago

Regarding (1), he also got verbal permission from the bartender before entering the women's restroom

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 2 days ago

These bigots continue to harass trans people.

These people are so illogical, it doesn't make any sense. It is just blind hatred. There is no data. Nothing that confirms their wrapped view or reality. In fact, these bigots are more likely to harm someone.

[–] [email protected] 73 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Strobel said he plans on defending himself in court

That's a bad idea, even though he has an easy case (in theory).

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago

Yeah and it's not just about how easy or hard the case is, lawyers know how to follow the rules, procedures, regulations etc. You're honestly just wasting your and the courts time even if you win.

[–] [email protected] 114 points 3 days ago (2 children)

well yeah. the point is to make the cops have more excuses to harm communities.

[–] [email protected] 80 points 3 days ago (7 children)

There have been so many cops everywhere the past fucking week where I live. I am so terrified.

I started using men’s restrooms in 2013. No one ever cared. No one has ever cared.

I used to travel a lot across my state - I like going to wonky small towns, dragged ex’s to places like the Spiro Mounds, wanted to explore the ghost town of Picher, had adventures with foster children in Arkansas…. but I have to stay in a city now.

It’s like a video game map now. Hubworlds are safe, the cops will be noticed if they do something and are at least dimly aware of that. But travel could cause a random encounter, with multiple deeply unpleasant outcomes.

That is why they do that shit. It’s stochastic terrorism. At least when I was a kid crying in terror over 9/11, the world was telling me that it was happening and it was real.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (12 children)

I'd also like to add... no one cares whos in what bathroom when you are in line at a portapotty do they? This shit is stupid.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've been waiting for a story like this to happen in the UK for a while now. When I saw this I was actually surprised to see it was in the US. It's only a matter of time, if it hasn't already happened.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago

Just shit in your hand and start throwing it at patrons. It's the only way

[–] [email protected] 64 points 3 days ago (3 children)

MAGAts are trying to make it unlivable for people.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 3 days ago (4 children)

USA has become a sociopathic society.
They claim to love freedom, but regulate to harass every minority there is.
The culture has become sick with sadistic hate.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 3 days ago

Working as intended, I'm afraid. 😡

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