Fight for a better world, both young and old.
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Most people don't want to die for a better world.
And that's the kind of fighting that it takes.
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I don't know, I'm more and more satisfied with life the older I get
Yeah other than my country falling apart my life is better at 39 than pretty much ever before. I'm genuinely happy. Again, other than the country stuff.
I damn sure wasn't happy and confident like this at 18 or whatever. I'm hitting my stride.
Back when I was in school they told me I was supposed to enjoy my youth and that it would be about the best time of my life. What they actually did was to demotivate me regarding my future. School was hell. Life is much better nowadays.
Yeah when I grew up I was a confused bag of hormones who had not yet learnt to deal with anything.
I think my expectations have just gotten more realistic?
Exactly. In youth, everything is important, and everything is a big fucking deal.
Over time, especially if you're introspective (not everyone has this ability, it seems), you'll come to temper those expectations.
Well look on the bright side…there’s probably a bright side!
I was less impressed when I learned that all the actors in that scene were on bicycle seats. But then I was more impressed when I learned they only had one ladder to let them down to take a pee.
Another fun Life of Brian fact: the production re-used the Tunisian sets built for Zeffirelli's Jesus of Nazareth television series. Zeffirelli was furious that the Tunisian authorities allowed this; he apparently did not know how money works.
Brightside is life expectancy is on a downward trend!
I still remember being told that in high school, and at 35 I can say with reasonable confidence that it was in fact the worst part of my life, not the best. Fuck you Mr. Ford, you were wrong, and you were an asshole, and if I can ever be arsed to locate your grave, I'll piss on it.
If anyone tells you that your teenage years are the best years of your life: Smile, nod, and slowly back away. Then never talk to that person again if you can help it.
Even if it was your mommy?
Especially if it's your mommy
Anyone who says 'These years are the best of your life' are really just telling you that their life peaked at that age.
If you play your cards right and have a large serving of luck, this will not be true for you.
a great part of having set down the path of self-improvement is that you can look back and go "see? i fucking knew things could get better"
It's rose-tinted glasses in play as well. I have many fond memories of my university days and deeply miss all the time I had with my friends that I now rarely see. I would encourage any student to cherish that aspect. There were many, many, difficult aspects of that time as well though, and a decade or so on I deeply appreciate the autonomy I have now.
I interpret it to be more about the weight given to different pros and cons about different stages in life.
Some people really, really prize autonomy, and don't get to experience that until pretty late in life. For these people, the stifling limits of adolescence, without their own money or independence from parents, can be miserable.
Some people really, really prize being free of responsibilities. To this group, sometimes adulthood comes with too many challenges and responsibilities that they find independence to be stifling.
Some care about physical health, which may correlate with younger ages.
Some love the ease of friendships in adolescence and early adulthood, and long for that dynamic when they realize that making new friends or maintaining existing friendships gets harder after 30, and even more so after 40.
Some feel very strongly about the loved ones they've lost since their childhood, and wish they could've appreciated those shared experiences more in the moment.
And we all have different experiences. I have no idea if my best years are ahead of me or behind me, but I could see an argument in either direction.
Right, but most of these factors can be significantly mitigated as we age, making them non-issues.
Being more free of responsibility can be achieved via life choices in career and family. Choose a career with flexibility, and prioritize flexibility when finding new jobs or negotiating promotions. Don't have kids if you don't want them or aren't ready for them.
Physical health generally declines with age, but good diet, exercise, and sleep habits keep nearly all these effects at bay. Many people can become more youthful with age simply because they are in such poor health as children.
Making and keeping friends as an adult is not that hard. While it doesn't "just happen" like it did in school, you tend to make friends with people who you actually have things in common with. Like, for example, people who value a life without needless stress, and who value their physical health.
We can certainly mourn those who have left us. But we also make new relationships as we get older. Is life better when you have a grandparent? Or when you have a grandchild?
The trend I've seen with people who say this to kids is that they have failed in one or more of these areas. The classic being, say, the divorced truck driver who had kids he didn't want, and who only interactes with people at work and at the bar. Older people I know who are doing well tend to tell younger people the steps to follow to achieve the same success and happiness.
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There are certain unique experiences you don't get later. There are a few places that have field trips in college, but for most people that is only during regular primary school.
there generally isn't really that much preventing you from having field trips later in life, you just have to actually make it happen yourself rather than having it handed to you.
You can do it yourself but generally not in a group like that for most people.
why not? ask around until you find people who want to come along.
If you're a relatively normal person that's not exactly difficult or unusual to do..
The nature of those unique experiences varies from person to person. My field trips might have been good memories had it not been for the fact that the horrible assholes I was stuck going to school with were there.
That's just shit people say, because their memory is skewed to remember some stuff.
After drinking that much lead you won't remember anything better
My experience is the opposite. Adolescence was horrible, young adulthood was hard, adulthood has been better. I am taking care of myself and I am happy with my relationships.
I'm glad things have improved for you and that you are doing well.
I can't remember which movie, but some basic rom-com. Girl was in a fight with her ex and trying to make him feel bad said, "I gave you the best years of my life."
And dude, utterly confused, responds, "those were your best?"
The movie was forgettable, but that absolutely savage line stuck with me.
Kate: I wasted the best years of my life on you.
Stuart: Those were your best years?
The whole "high school is the best years of your life" thing was always total bullshit. The drugs are much better in college.
Fuck all the adults who say this to kids with less privileged childhoods.
How i felt when i was told nobody would love me more than my parents.
no one will love you more than a spoiled pet
I've never really had much of a family. The whole family bond thing seems like a farce. I love my parents because they were good parents, not simply because they were my parents.
No, it will get so much better. And so, so, so much worse. Sometimes in the course of like an hour.
And sometimes it's both simultaneously.
My 30s will probably be the best years of my life, if not my 40s. #justtransthings
Don't listen to people who peaked during high school.
Nah dawg 30s is where it's at so far. (I'm 30s)
Yeah the people who say that tell boring stories of glory days.
You will see the positives looking back. It will look much better than it was
Nah, I think my 30s are looking better now that I have a good job and the right meds.
I think this is just a saying that lost its meaning. Youth is the time you don’t have to worry about much and you can live without regrets because most of your decisions don’t have real consequences (aside from the obvious ones).
Obviously to young people they don’t see it that way. In hindsight I could have done a lot more as a kid but I didn’t for fear of whatever the hell I was afraid of. Definitely not the best years though.
it also just doesn't work at all for many people, like what if you grew up poor and couldn't afford to do the fun carefree things? what if you had no friends? what if things that other people consider mundane made you vomit from anxiety?
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