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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Poofluencers 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Bird the self proclaimed queen, the trailblazer, the reason why we keep showing up in our bodies looked like the most self conscious woman at the P&P event. So many woman actually looked like they put on the suit and just resumed life, getting in the pool and having fun. And then there is bird 💩 with baggy clothes and a strategically placed cover up.

There is nothing wrong with how bird looks in these photos but they are both far from what she shares on line to get 🔥. Short forehead, low brows, regular non cartoon sized eyes and flat hair. Clearly that mouth possess no natural qualities. Her size - why would anyone give a F - I don’t, but the way she captures her own image and shares it is gross and harmful.

[–] facialSwelling 6 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

She looks very different from what she posts in her stories. It must be the lenses and angles. I think she's gained a fair amount of weight since last fall. Perhaps her eyes have become smaller due to her weight gain. Here are some images from last September/ October to compare.

[–] BirdsaLiar 2 points 8 hours ago

She’s trying desperately to get herself to the size she’s filtered herself to be for so long. So she can say ‘look, I really am’. Pathetic liar.

[–] BirdsaLiar 2 points 8 hours ago

She’s trying desperately to get herself to the size she’s filtered herself to be for so long. So she can say ‘look, I really am’. Pathetic liar.

[–] Glowpop 8 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

One of these things is not like the other! 🤡

[–] FraudulentFruit1 7 points 11 hours ago (2 children)
[–] crownofgold6 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

How much does she need to talk about these heatless curls ffs. Nobody is asking I’m sure.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 3 points 9 hours ago

She has literally nothing else lol

[–] Glowpop 7 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

She’s acting like heatless hair curling is a brand new concept and she is the chosen one doing it for the first time and showing pictures of her hair all the time now. It’s so embarrassing

[–] facialSwelling 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

She's always trying to push women back to the 1950s. Who wants to sleep with all that crap in their hair, for what, to wake up "hot"?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 4 points 9 hours ago

She looks like an idiot. And who's face? That doesn't look like her slurpee ad

[–] facialSwelling 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

her snatched jawline has melted.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 4 points 9 hours ago
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 6 points 12 hours ago

Oomph...those sunken starvation eyes ....

[–] Glowpop 6 points 17 hours ago

Wonder how the P&P people feel about her using Beis bags lmfao

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 7 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Those eyes though hahahahah. And yup. She definitely has gained weight according to these photos...

[–] Glowpop 8 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Especially her eyes in the picture on the bottom second from left. Dear god. She looks like a Sim.

[–] facialSwelling 9 points 15 hours ago

"no filter" sure, sure Birdie.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 7 points 17 hours ago

It's insanity

[–] facialSwelling 7 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Maybe she's stopped running?

[–] cookiefleck 7 points 12 hours ago

And daily lifting!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 6 points 18 hours ago
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 9 points 23 hours ago

Dent in forehead. That bottom pic...the gapping at the sides of her mouth. Yuck!!!!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 8 points 23 hours ago

Also... definitely not as small as she posts lol. Same ol

[–] Richbynameonly 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Idiot birdshit tagged KB in two birthday stories and KB didn’t share them 😅

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 8 points 23 hours ago

You can tell KB doesn't like her. I wonder how she doesn't see it

[–] FraudulentFruit1 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

What an imbecile. OMFG she is brain dead.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm iny 40s and I have seen bodies like hers since I can remember lol. She must of lived in a box lmfao

[–] Richbynameonly 9 points 1 day ago

Seriously she thinks she’s so exclusive 🙄

[–] Glowpop 9 points 1 day ago

“I didn’t know what to say to justify me sharing a picture of me in my undies on a big screen, so I just said anything! Teehee!”

Also, what even is this “performance marketing summit” she’s speaking at?

[–] facialSwelling 9 points 1 day ago

A woman posing in underwear. How is she helping us?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 8 points 1 day ago

Audience experts?

[–] Glowpop 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

After 8 hours, 85 comments on her post from the launch that were basically just recycled story photos. After 2 days, 59 comments on her post about how late she is (like every trend) to heatless curls. You would think someone with 2.5 million followers would yield more comments on posts!!! 🤡

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 11 points 1 day ago

Proof she buys followers lol I love this for her!

[–] facialSwelling 9 points 2 days ago

It's so obvious she's buying likes/views/followers. What a loser!

[–] Glowpop 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Love watching everyone else’s content and seeing where she is far off in the background, if she is even present. Always off-camera or lingering way off in the back. Seeing her in videos of everyone dancing at the bar last night is hilarious. Everyone looks normal and is having a good time and she is always talking and seems to be distracting everyone, hanging off someone in that ‘ahh I’m nervous/don’t know what to do tee-hee’ way, or she doesn’t participate properly and is just sort of standing there swaying. I wonder why she didn’t want to learn how to square dance, probably knows she’d look like a moron. It’s not a competition but she is outshined here in every way by everyone else and I think she knows it. She really is playing the videographer card here, taking sooo many videos of everyone else, probably acting like she’s doing them a great service, when in reality she would have the camera pointed at herself this whole time. Everyone taking pictures and videos of the whole group dancing, including everyone, pointing out the community/girlhood of it all. Then TBP posts a photo where everyone is blurry except herself, pointing and looking ridiculous while calling it the perfect photo. Of course it is, it’s just about her in that photo. Seeing all this content really shows you she has no confidence in the slightest. If she would just try to have fun and participate it wouldn’t be so obvious. I always find her tone towards Becci to be passive and bordering on unkind, but she must be so glad to have her here to attach herself to, posting content where she is not just reluctantly acknowledging her.

[–] GumboYaYa 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

All of that is an act as well! Everyone…look at me all alone! Remember in middle school the girl who would alwaya run and isolate herself and then all the girls would rally around her to see what was wrong. This is what that energy is giving.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 7 points 2 days ago

Yes! Exactly this!

[–] Richbynameonly 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Glowpop 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lmao thank you 😂 sometimes I feel so curmudgeon-y when I go on tirades but I just can't stand this woman living off of free products, food, literally everything when she doesn't do anything, especially her "job", to deserve a free handout

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 6 points 2 days ago

I feel you girl!!!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 8 points 2 days ago

And all those girls have actual jobs lol

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