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[–] Godort 71 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

This is a thing. It's called Call Screening

[–] [email protected] 53 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

I use it on android and most people just hang up.

But it's nice knowing that companies who call me also have to talk to a robot first before reaching the human, me😊

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

I like it when they actually have to reach me because they start talking to it professionally and when I answer I've had at least two people say something like "I wish I had an assistant like that."

IDK what it sounds like but it always makes me chuckle a little.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I refuse to take any calls from robot, i've had Dr offices say "we tried to call you" and I reply "no you didnt you had a robot try to call me and I ain't got time for that shit", of couse "ain't got time" is relative, because I am mostly just digging holes in mine craft.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Nah fuck that. Your time is precious and I'd rather be spending time in minecraft than answering an unexpected phone call. So yeah, "I ain't got time" indeed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds nice, but usually when someone calls me, they need something quickly, and that would be really annoing. At least I'm lucky enough that people don't call me if they can send a text message instead.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Same, my favourite thing recently is when the caller is an AI, I just get a voicemail of the darker AI taking to my pixel's on device AI for 30 seconds

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have it too. It's glorious.

9 out of 10, it's bots talking to bots.

But the 1 time, it was my doctor calling about something afterwards. I love it.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I want it to be more common and standard. Definitely want to turn on this feature but I don’t have it available for me on my phone.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

It’s literally built into Android and iOS.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Not available on my zenphone 9, quick Google says the manufacturer has to add it themselves, apparently only pixel and Samsung phones rn?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

From what i see about iOS, only iOS 26 does which is in beta not even released yet

[–] Rusty 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My 5 years old Pixel has it and it's very convenient since 95% of the calls I get are from spammers

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

where it asks people what they are calling about? Not just spam screening

[–] Rusty 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes it asks people why they are calling and shows the response as a text to the user. Here's how it looks

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

It also doesn’t work yet, I tried it. Maybe that’s because of my unusual language settings though (German region with English system language and Siri).

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

It is, but not all versions and it’s not available for all devices yet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It used to be easier to screen calls when we had answering machines.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

"Pick up. Come on pick up! I know you're there. Im stuck at the mall and need a ride. Come on pick up...."

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

Exactly. If you just never answer your phone, you’ll never have to deal with all the people who either refuse to leave a voicemail or send a text message/email instead. It saves a lot of trouble.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

Ive got a version of that on my phone, but its just me rejecting every call that isn't in my contacts list.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I love call screening... All but eliminates scammers

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

For a whole I had the call screening on going through Voice, but I turned it off a while back when I was looking for a different job. It seemed a lot of recruiters either would hang up or maybe some of them would get screened out as when I had it off I got a lot more return calls. Anecdotal of course.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is what texting is for.

Unironically.

Text "hey I need to know how to use (xyz), can you walk me through it?"

Response "sure"

(Call)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Unless you're my friends, which is then this.

Them: wyd?

Me: (immediate response) Hey man. I'm going to wrap up work at 5pm, then I'm going to dinner with my wife. Want to come and bring your new gf? If so, let me know and we'll pick you up.

Them: (2 hours later) 🦢πŸͺπŸ“πŸͺ¬ haha feel me?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I need an automated system like they do for companies where you have to navigate through an option tree by pressing numbers when prompted. And there is only one very elusive path to let the call through to me, all the other parts end to either endless loops or a dummy voicemail box that doesn't actually record any messages.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Many smartphones today have a call screening option where a voice agent asks the caller why they're calling and messages you the result.

You will be glad to hear that what you describe is also pretty easy to setup.

[–] ininewcrow 24 points 2 weeks ago

I just ignore the call

If it was important, they'll call again

If it was an emergency, they'll call non-stop and text a bunch of times

Otherwise, most times, when it's not important, the person calls once, realizes it wasn't important and doesn't call again

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

i already know. they are selling something, or wantnme to do something for free.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

phones need to implement personal:

if you are calling to make cancel change appointments press 1

if you are calling to share updates press 2

if you are calling about those 20$ you owe me, press 3 for venmo info

...

i want it

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

Then they add ads to the feature. Then charge more for ad-free.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I want it to cost $6.99 to even fucking call me. Period.

Ah, blessed silence.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Omg! That's the answer! I need to change to a 1-976-xxx-xxxx number. $1 to call, and an additional $1/min.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I had a Pixel on Google Fi with this. When I got a call I could tell my Pixel to answer, ask who was calling, and ask the purpose of their call. I could see their responses transcribed and press automated response buttons.

It was amazing. Not sure why other phones don't support it, definitely a feature I miss.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Call screening and yeah, it is one of their better features.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Easily the best feature. I used it on everyone including family, friends, coworkers, robots whatever

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Voicemail is part of a phone plan already.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's not the same. You can't answer it mid-recording. and if the phone call turns out to be important, you have to call back, and if it's a company you'll likely have to navigate a maze of options, then wait while "all operators are busy".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I can answer a call mid voicemail on my iPhone. I thought that was a feature for a while on Android?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Get a pixel

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

If you're in America you can add your name to the National Do Not Call Registry. Telemarketers seem to be ignoring it in recent years, but for many years I received almost zero spam calls. The feds just have to be prodded into enforcing it again. The penalties can be up to $1000 per call for high-volume offenders, like the autodialer services small businesses subscribe to.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

"you have received a request for a call concerning Casual Conversation from Friend BILLY. Press 1 to accept"

Might be convenient

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

sounds like texting but with extra steps

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