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Why would you want to?

For dudes, the email newsletter Blackbird Spyplane is very good for fashion.

Fashion trends are part of the owning class making us working class spend more on thetr products, don't fall for its buy things that make you, you, don't fall for the capitalist need to buy things you don't necessarily need. Unless it's dictated by the owning class in your job, nothing you can do about that though.

You really don't have to. Unless you intend to work in the capitalistic work of clothing marketing, there really is no point. Most of the people out there with style or that look good build their own personal style or at the very least take the time to understand what looks good on them, and that has a lot to do with proportions as well. Timeless style works best for a lot of people, especially considering most trends literally circle back around if you give them enough time.

It's harder than ever to follow trends now that there are such things as "microtrends" and everyone's just trying to sell you something constantly. Idk if this is stemming from a social insecurity about your looks, but trust me, people who find their style and rock it authentically look the coolest and will attract the right crowd for them (usually). There's people out there rocking vintage fashion, punk, hipster, academic - and they all look so dang cool

It’s easy, every morning I get up I take a few mins to put on clothes

By up to date on clothing and fashion you mean making sure your clothed every day right?

Is this is for work, you might want to look up "capsule wardrobe." This gives you wardrobe to mix and match that looks like you have bunch of clothes when you don't. You really don't need to keep up with main stream fashion. Any pressure to do so is just societal pressure and you don't have to align with it.

I don't

Build your own style and own it, trying to keep up with trends (of any sort) is a recipe for dissatisfaction

If you don’t love fashion, don’t try to “keep up with trends”.

Think of it this way. Fashion can be a hobby. You can spend hours every week researching, studying, searching for clothes. You can participate in message boards or discord groups for it. You can travel just for it.

Like photography. Like working out. Like gardening.

You can still like to take some pictures, and want them to be nice, without making photography your hobby. Same with going to the gym, or keeping some plants in your apartment.

So if fashion is not the hobby for you, don’t worry about it too much. Just learn what is good for you. Don’t care about the trends.

You can dress in any style nowadays tbh.

Just be mindful of getting a good fit on your clothes. Make sure the length of the pants is right, they fit well around the waist etc.

Maybe find a couple of ppl on social media you like the way they dress, and just passively absorb their content while scrolling.

Then go shopping from time to time, when you feel the need for a piece of clothing. Like maybe you need new pants, maybe you need new shoes.

You’ll have an idea of what kind of stuff you like, how you’d like to have your clothes fit etc.

But yeah, you don’t have to make fashion a hobby if you don’t want to. Trends are for kids and fashion autists.

I dont. I dont give a shit about it, marketing is designed to manipulate you into buying more shit you dont need.

That being said I still dress well, opting for non branded stuff as I dont want to be a walking advertisement and I would rather spend the money on experiences.

I chose to buy stuff that goes with a lot of things so I can maximize value. Neutral colors that can be combined in a variety or ways. I also look for stuff I could wear for both work and day to day settings.

Using money you haven’t earned to buy things you don’t need to impress people you don’t like..

I've been wearing the same tshirts and jeans for 30 years. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Most of these comments are reddit levels of snarky and unhelpful, wow.

"How do I keep up my style?" Top comment: "I don't, and neither should you."

Great, thanks. Just because someone's hobby isn't tinkering with their Linux-variant for 5 hours a day doesn't mean it's worthless, especially to them. A lot more men are into fashion than Lemmy would have you believe, OP, don't get discouraged!

My advice is that if you have no clue where to start looking at "trends", I always recommend going to see what the big menswear fashion brands are doing in their seasonal collections and seeing if there's any outfits, silhouettes or pieces you're drawn to. Trying to find versions of those at your price point is the easiest way. And if you like things from a few seasons past, even better, because you'll definitely find them at thrift stores and 2nd hand resell sites like Poshmark/Depop/etc for a fraction of the price.

Also look for natural fabrics (cotton, silk, linen), not polyester. Tencel and Lenzing ecovero are good alternatives of you need the elasticity and smoothness certain polyester fabrics have but can't splurge on the higher cotton/silk quality. Polyester tends to trap smells, degrades quickly, and is basically recycled plastic clothing. Best to avoid.

No offense to the other replies, but I don't feel they're answering your question. While the ideal answer is to be yourself and not chasing trends, many people still want to look nice.

I think one of the perks of being male is that there is so much great style that is considered timeless. I'm not very fashionable, but I try to buy things that won't look dated anytime soon.

I found this article that could be of help to you. It looks at 30 men from different decades that show off classic style, and even many of the older ones, if you borrowed aspects of their looks, you would still be stylish today.

30 Icons of Timeless Men's Style: The film stars, musicians, athletes and cultural figures who have left an indelible mark on the world of style

The reason you're getting the replies that you're getting is that the vast vast majority of men don't do clothing in the way that you're asking. Most men don't do "up to date" style, most men do classic styles that always look good. If you want answers to current male fashion trends then you'd have to ask in a forum dedicated to male fashion

I'd say don't worry about it, it's still money you can better spend somewhere else. Replace your clothes as they wear out, choose comfy, ethically produced fibers, buy goods that last. Fashion and trends is just a scheme to get more money out of you.

Wear comfortable cloths that fit you well. When its time to replace something, get the same you had or pick out a new one you like.

Keeping up with "fashion" isn't a time problem, its a wallet problem. The marketing is all designed to give you the feeling of missing out so you'll buy cloths you don't need.

Think back to childhood "back to school cloths"; did anyone actually care if your day 1 outfit was brand new and the latest fad? No. (If they did, damn them for ruining my point).

Jeans and a good shirt. My smile does the rest. I find, so long as you meet a basic level of personal upkeep, how you treat people is a more important.

Edit: Also, if you're in the mindset of 'trying to keep up' with fashion you've already lost. Think "I want to be a leader" if this is that important to you.

Fuck that.

There are a couple of replies with good advice here. I'm going to add to them. First, remember that you don't have to get everything at one go. It takes time to build style (notice I say that instead of fashion).

Not all body types can get a good fit off the rack, but having your clothes fit is probably the most important thing you can do. It's not expensive to have shirts tailored. I have a long torso and narrow shoulders, so any of my work clothes or going out clothes are purchased a size too large and taken down to this very nice Chinese woman who takes them all in for me. It runs me about $25 per shirt to do it but I get a lot of wear out of them so it's worth it.

Build a capsule wardrobe. A couple of nice plain white T-shirts (I happen to like 3 fit theory because of their range of sizes, but if you can buy off the rack almost any decent T-shirt will work) and a few different colors that you can swap between create a base to build around. Get a couple of dress shirts, one in white (my other go to is blue, but I've really gotten into a pink dress shirt under my sweater for cooler weather). Get some good fitting jeans, charcoal slacks (or a charcoal suit), and some brown, khaki, or olive chinos and have them hemmed. From there you can get casual button up shirts, a cardigan, and a nice sweater. You'll also need casual footwear (I wear skater shoes), dress shoes, and maybe some brown leather boots (I wear Western boots but I don't recommend it unless you are either very comfortable in them or are somewhere that they're common....get some reasonable lace up boots).

Mix and match everything. At this point you'll never look like you're wearing the same outfit twice. You'll look put together and you'll have style. Layer your casual button up over one of the T-shirts. Layer the sweaters over any of your button up shirts. Tuck in if the occasion calls for it. Layer the sweater over a T-shirt.

This advice obviously isn't for everyone, but you'll look good. I get compliments about how put together I always look and honestly I rarely stop to think about what I'm wearing because almost everything in my closet goes with everything else and it all fits. With mixing and matching everything I probably have a ton of ways I can put things together with less than 20 items of clothing, 3 of them being shoes.

On any given day it's easy for me to go from my desk job, to giving a demonstration to executives, to the ranch to ride some horses, then out to any bar in the city. Of course not all of these will apply to you. But if you take your time over the next several months you can get one item on payday and build things up and have something to wear anywhere.

Colour theory is a good thing to learn for clothes because its stays the same over every trend

By keeping a fashion-neutral wardrobe. Your closet will look a little more boring, but having solid and neutral colored clothes that fit right (not skinny or baggy) will go a long way. A collared shirt, slim fit pants, and a nice pair of sneakers will fit any fashion era.

The other way is to have a large, fixed, revolving wardrobe. Fashion trends are a cycle and something popular now will go out of style in time but will eventually come back, then go out of style again, ad infinitum. So have a variety of clothes, but stick with them and don’t keep on buying.

I find the first option cheaper, more practical, and more economical though.

I stay up to date by choosing a date from 20-30 years ago. T-shirt and jeans for ever!

I don't, but probably the easiest way would be to shop from all those fast fashion stores that sell clothes that won't last a month and pick the best sellers.

Probably best not to though.

Plesse dont, the world is turning ugly. also its super Lame to wear what the others wear.

Unless you're in the fashion business you'll always feel like you're behind on trends.
One idea for a regular person would be to buy whatever mainstream stores are selling at the moment and try to combine it in unique ways. You will sometimes get bad results sure, but there will be less pressure to follow trends if you start coming up with your own styles.

It's not what you wear, it's how you wear it

The easy answer is to follow fashion topics on socials, since trends pretty predictably follow whatever the brands are selling

Kinda begs the question as to why you'd want to do this, but that's not really for me to ask

I have had good luck at H&M for low-end, but stylish clothes. When I want to invest in staple pieces, I use a personal shopper at Nordstrom.

It is wise to refrain from being swayed by transient fashion trends, for they are but fleeting moments in the ever evolving tapestry of style. In time as the years pass and the pictures of yesteryear resurface, one may find themselves the subject of mockery as what once seemed chic may appear rather laughable. Focus on wearing timeless, decent clothing that gives off a neutral look. (While some might label your look as boring, it’s really just timeless sophistication that doesn’t need to shout for attention. Who needs flashy trends when you can effortlessly avoid the fashion disasters of tomorrow?)