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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


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  1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
  2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
  3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).
  4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).
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Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.

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This one is both upsetting and weird.

So there was a user on ponder.cat who's been spamming posts. Like a lot. 58 per day, on average. Not 58 comments. 58 posts.

I started seeing a little scattering of reports about it, mostly just figured it was the mods' business to deal with, and then finally today I actually really took a look at what they were doing and realized it was way over the top. Pretty much everyone in the comments agreed when someone brought it up.

A 25 day old account with 1,400+ posts? What the actual fuck? My entire goddamn feed is this one account...

Touch grass. Good lord. You're carpet bombing multiple communities with repeats of the same crap.

The user was not receptive.

lol.

I guess people here do not know how to block an account.

:)

Is that a compliment or a rant?

May I introduce you to Lemmy block function.

If you don’t like my posts then block me and you will never see them again. As simple as that.

That's a bunch of bullshit. The voting was about as you would expect. I said to the user:

That's not how it works. If you're interfering with the average Lemmy user's experience, you don't get to claim it doesn't count because each individual person would be able to block each individual problematic account, if they wanted to have a good experience. Honestly, these people have a point. You have been posting an average of 58 posts per day. That's too much. I post a ton, and that's about 10 times more than me, and I've gotten multiple complaints about posting too much in particular communities. The handful of times it's happened, my reaction was "Oh my bad what sounds like an acceptable level" and then to more or less stick to an acceptable level. Getting snarky with people who are asking you to cool it is very bad. Please stop posting so much. Anything about 10-15 posts per day starts to feel really excessive to me. Definitely don't be dismissive about people's complaints to you about it.

They rejected my suggestion, so I sent them a DM that was a little more direct about it: Stop doing this if you want to keep your account on my instance.

Then, for some reason, they deleted their account on their own.

Well, that was weird, but at least it's all resolved and we can all get back to what we were doing. Or wait... what's happening now?

I wasn't expecting "making sure we make a safe space for the spammers by banning people who complain about spam" to be an important moderation duty, but I guess in the bizarro world that is [email protected] moderation philosophy, it makes perfect sense.

https://lemmy.world/modlog/1347

@[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I always assumed cat@pondercat was an unmarked bot for your instance.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

Yeah, I started thinking I should talk with them or ban them or something because they would make me look bad. I actually did send them some DMs recommending that they tone it down, without much result. They solved the problem for me though before I had to decide what to do.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Sounds to me like some moderator wanted those unreliable sources and pieces of propaganda slipped in.

Definitely PTB.

Wow, look at the last removal from that timeframe in the modlog. Someone literally just said they think the other person might be a spam bot and got their post removed for it. There's definitely a mod with an agenda there.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Honestly? I think you're right.

With the exception of MBFC bot, every one of these weird disconnects that has arisen between the lemmy.world moderators and the overwhelming majority of the users of lemmy.world, has followed the pattern of "someone is posting propaganda and bullshit, everyone hates it, and the LW moderators are lecturing everyone about how they really need to accept that it's here to stay, because it is allowed, and people who are vocal about having a problem with it are going to get banned." You can see the official mod explanations down below for why this particular (pretty minor TBH) decision was the way it was. The explanations are objectively not true. So what is the actual explanation for the decision?

I've observed on Reddit what happens when clearly bad-faith moderators take over a space to clear the way for it to become a little propaganda home. I think we're observing here the beginnings of that process, where at least some of the mod team is actively working to make a safe space for the propaganda, and they've become ensconced enough to be able to mandate a certain amount of propaganda be part of the space. I actually didn't see Cat's postings as being all that propaganda-y, but there certainly was some amount of it in among the general spam and clutter.

Honestly I think the root of the issue is the whole design where the space is "in the control" of some particular person to do whatever they want with it, and that person has to be a volunteer and so there's always a crushing shortage of people to do it, so it's going to work 100% of the time for someone who wants to put effort into controlling the space to be allowed to have free rein, after a while.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago

PTB, the mods in [email protected] are really aggressive power-trippers in this current day and age. That's why a hands off approach like what certain servers do where they "choose not to interfere with communities" is not a good approach. Even Reddit has a Moderator CoC. Instance admins can and should hold communities to a certain standard of moderation and ban or reassign moderators which don't or abuse their power.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

Reminds me of UniversalMonk - the combative tone, the posting patterns. Not necessarily the same person but definitely following the same playbook.

[–] Mammothmothman 13 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Wow lemmy is becoming more like reddit every day.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago

A lot of it seems to be one particular moderator.

Most of the big-name lemmy.world communities have moderation that in my opinion is just kind of clueless, but that might be just a product of having to deal with a neverending flood of hundreds of different issues (not being able to devote any amount of attention to each one of them beyond the most basic possible glance at it.) There is one specific moderator who seems to be consistently at the root of these totally backwards-land decisions though. What the reason for that is, I have no idea.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Lemmy is reddit. Always have been. Including the false superiority complex that somehow comes with both platforms.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

It's literally just open source reddit that redditors used to flee reddit. Not sure why people are surprised. Social media is only as good as its users.

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[–] Rentlar 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world has always been the most Reddit-like in terms of operation. Most others are reasonable about spam management.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (3 children)
  • Ban spam: Normal
  • Fail to ban spam: Understandable, maybe not ideal but people get busy
  • Get mad at the people who don't want spam: Okay? Maybe someone's having a bad day
  • Ban the people who don't want spam, delete their comments leaving the spam alone: ???
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (8 children)

Oh hey, I was wondering if this might show up here.

I will admit that I was aggressive in calling them out, but I'd seriously had enough of scrolling through All and seeing nothing but their name on everything, on top of seeing the same post on 3-5 different communities.

Language aside, I believe my concerns were reasonable enough and clearly stated. Power users of that nature can control what everyone on this platform is exposed to, potentially manipulating opinions and injecting disinformation. Lemmy is still small enough that a handful of people could potentially influence the entire user base. Vigilance is key.

My remaining concerns are 1) There are still other accounts with identical behavior that have not been addressed and 2) I have seen accounts like this one cycle through instances, and I expect we'll see a new account begin the same behavior from somewhere else soon enough.

Quite amusing that Cat deleted their account though. Exactly the sort of behavior you'd expect from someone just innocently posting content, right?

Beyond that, I could see a temp ban for my language. But 15 days? Yeesh. It was actually removed a short time ago so I guess another mod got a look at things.

Here's the ban explanation, basically saying "spammers and suspicious activity is a-okay, and how dare you say anything about it"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

You're 100% correct that a 15-day ban was too much. For some reason I had thought that wasn't your first ban in news. Vegan and news have similar icons (based on colors and a quick glance). I apologize for that, and unbanned you a day ago.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

"You can interact with the fediverse how you like. Also, we're banning you for interacting with the fediverse in a way we don't like."

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

Quite amusing that Cat deleted their account though. Exactly the sort of behavior you’d expect from someone just innocently posting content, right?

Because an admin threatening to ban you for being too active is surely something that makes you feel warm and welcome there. /s
This is the kind of reductive, uncharitable take you see on the VAC forums on Steam, I'm surprised you're expressing such a baseless bad-faith claim here about said person, not a good look for you.

I'm not surprised they deleted their account upon threatening to be banned for being too active, I would probably do the same thing. Especially with my past experiences with @[email protected], he seems like a pompous uptight control freak. Not the kind of person I want having access to my email address and my last known IP logins.

If you don't like me saying any of this about you @[email protected] you know exactly what to do about it 🔨

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Ohhhh shit👀👀

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I will admit that I was aggressive in calling them out

Dude, you're fine. Full stop.

Lemmy.world is the only instance that does this super-weird moderation philosophy of actively refusing to take action against people who are obviously objectively pissing off the vast majority of people, but then taking action against users who get understandably pissed and react in any way that's "uncivil." It's bizarre and unnatural. They also like to send condescending messages about how we're the weird ones, if we have a problem with it, and they've figured it all out from their higher perspective, and everything they did was right.

Don't let them gaslight you into thinking that it was wrong to be irritated about it. It is better if people speak up about people causing problems. Since the mods are committed to not doing anything about it for some ridiculous reason. IDK, I've ceased trying to understand what's behind it and just don't much participate in lemmy.world anymore. I only even became aware of this situation because I saw reports about spam that was coming from one of my users.

I can be a cockhead sometimes, but neither you or I was being in any way unreasonable anywhere in that thread. You're allowed to have human emotions, including irritation. If you want my conflicted-of-interest opinion.

  1. I have seen accounts like this one cycle through instances, and I expect we’ll see a new account begin the same behavior from somewhere else soon enough.

Yeah. Being able to make new anonymous accounts and be as much of a cock as you want until someone's motivated to fix you individually after a long time of you getting the benefit of the doubt, which only solves the problem for a few minutes until you make a new account, is a problem. What the solution is I have no idea.

It was actually removed a short time ago so I guess another mod got a look at things.

I mean this is how it's all supposed to work. I don't think anyone needs to get 100% of the calls correct. They're all volunteers, they're doing an important job, it's not fair to jump down anyone's throat if they make a misjudgement through lack of information or not wanting to spend an hour getting up to speed, or anything.

Most of the reason I sound pissed off about it, above and beyond just a "hey I think someone should take another look at this", is the overall condescending tone of "we never did anything wrong, we know more than you" that accompanies every dogshit moderation decision like a little dollop of frosting on the turd. It seems guaranteed to ensure that they won't learn anything from any given instance where someone did mess up, because they already decided they're a special type of people who are empowered to come down and need to educate all the rest of us.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

Pretty common irl, ppl that are constant problems get away with shit because its expected, anyone retaliating because they reached their breaking point looks insane in comparison

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

Right there with you on all of this. I actually just said as much in reply to Java's comment to you.

To summarize: "They did nothing wrong and we knew nothing about it".

  • The first part of that statement is false.
  • The second part of that statement is either 1) false 2) admission that they don't pay a bit of attention to communities they signed up to pay attention to, or 3) indication that they're buried and need more assistance with moderating (to be charitable)

And trust me, if speaking out like this is the only thing that results in action being taken I'll continue to do so, though it would be nice to see that change.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

That sounds just like another pretty infamous user.

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