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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I would appreciate having it for avatars and banners. I was going to change mine and couldn’t figure out why even the smallest time size was “too large. Would it be possible to have an avatar be a link for a hosted picture somewhere else or is that too much of a security concern?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I have been listening to maybe a dozen of their podcast episodes and find them pretty interesting. I tried a few other ones but they seem to have the right angle and speed that I’m interested in. Mike and Josh really get into some more philosophical aspects that is promoting a lot of introspection in general. I’ll definitely need to check out that binding; thanks for the suggestion.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Homework actually 😅. After a couple of hours, they all start to sound like the cantina song on Star Wars

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah I suppose you have a point. I guess I’m not trying to criticize that approach but trying to understand why the article says this drug will “shift perspectives.” Are they implying that instead of waiting until a patient develops symptoms of heart disease, they will prescribe meds to help control weight? Is that not what is already happening now?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

So, it’s an antidiabetic that can be injected subcutaneously in addition to orally, neat but why? Diabetes and pre-diabetes are known risk factors for atherosclerosis and heart disease, so the antidiabetic drug is being used for people that may or may not be diabetic but want to lose weight? Wouldn’t it have less risk for pancreatitis to do a weight loss coaching?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I read somewhere that almost every disagreement or upsetting thing between people is usually due to a difference in expectations. If you are expecting to fully express feelings as part of the meeting, but they are only looking for an overall “I’m doing terribly” and the person leading the group really only wants to give advise on something else part of the meeting, it would cause this misalignment of expectations. I wonder what would happen if you openly asked “I’m looking for a group that I can do X, is this a place for that or what are the expectations of this group?” Then at least you can save yourself some grief of opening up and having little response.

That being said, some groups/people say they want something, but their actions don’t seem to promote that, so you just have to draw that conclusion yourself and look elsewhere. But I’ve found clarifying expectations early helps prevent some disappointment.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I’m not sure if it’s being used in a different context, but the way that author depicted it was natural wakefulness and sleepiness. It’s a measurable phenomenon of adenosine levels and EEG waves. People have different times of the day that they are most awake or most sleepy. One theory is as an evolutionary advatage, humans can guard each other while the other is active.

And the study that is referenced had a college professor and his grad student sleep in a pitch black cave to observe how long a “day” would be with zero sunlight. The younger student had about a 25 hr day, and the middle-aged professor had about a 24.5 hr day. It showed strong evidence that lighting has a direct relationship to sleep.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I’m thinking it’s probably a combination of poor sleep habits as an undervalued asset, along with chronotype mismatches. Something like only 30-40% of the population is the typical “morning lark” that the entire world is structured around. Everyone else is not benefiting as much from sleep or are having consequences. I’m fairly convinced that the insomnia predisposition is related to the chronotype passed from parent to child. 

The book “Why We Sleep“by Matthew Walker is a fascinating and well-supported book for anyone curious about the nature of sleep. 

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I know, I just discovered this artist and did not realize I already had some of the other works. Really talented person.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ninth from the sun; first in our hearts

…or maybe you need UHD to see it 🥴

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

They probably love the shear speed of it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

There is a really cool motivational speaker that talked about how people have the idea that “success will lead to happiness,” but it’s actually the opposite, “happiness fuels success.” That doesn’t necessarily mean more money, but he said people that can find happiness around them instead of waiting for it are more fufilled. What I took away is that it’s good practice to dig deep and think about the good things in our lives instead of waiting for X to happen to be happy. It’s difficult to explain, but I think he means not to put the control of our fulfillment with an external factor (job, money, etc). I think where people get sucked in is a little success gives you that high for a while, until they need to find another success, and keep needing to fuel that happiness machine.

 

Cross post from [email protected]

Multiple countries included.

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It tasted pretty good, but the bill was enormous!

(Remembered this one after the post from @[email protected])

 
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apparently made my paper.co

 

I am personally experiencing some pretty tough times with my family member making more empty promises and manipulation. I think one of the most difficult parts is when the person is in denial and defensive. If they don’t agree that reality is not their reality, it becomes next to impossible to talk and be around them. It’s like we’re speaking different languages. I guess what is getting me through the times denial right now is paying only attention to behavior, not the words being said.

And I have found a couple of friends that have dealt with something almost identical, and I cannot emphasize enough how much of a relief it is to have someone else in the loop. It feels wrong to talk about it in the open, because addiction seems to still be a fairly taboo subject. But there’s nothing to be ashamed of. To deny what is happening belittles the struggle everyone is facing. I recommend doing everything possible to find people to talk with about it. And not just about their struggle; find support for you.

Anyone else have things that helped kept you anchored in tough times?

 

(It looks like the vLemmy instance is no longer working, so I recreated the community here. I posted this once before Lemmy.World was apparently fully connected to this Lemm.ee instance, so this is a copy)

Hi everyone, my name is loopy and I created this lemmy community to make a space for people to share and support each other through the challenges of having a friend or family member struggling with addiction. As the sidebar says, this is not to replace therapy; think of it like an online support group. I’ll get the ball rolling a little bit by sharing that my BIL has been struggling with addiction. First to opioids, then to his Adderall prescription. The mood swings are an understatement. I get glimpses of sobriety but then the cycles continue. It honestly gets pretty exhausting to keep trying to have empathy only to be let down again. My wife and my focus lately has been setting boundaries. He knows how to manipulate my wife, so I said that we all need to be present when deciding something (eg if he is staying at our house for the weekend). It feels uncomfortable for her, but it has been minimizing the stress. I have learned the valuable lesson of keeping yourself safe and well first. This is basically not possible for my wife to set this boundary with him, so my role has been a lot of reassurance and being consistent. Another essential lesson we have discovered is to distinctly define roles. We are not therapists and cannot be a detox center. We have literally tried because he talked us into it. The last recent thing we concluded is that the whole process has to be their decision. No matter how badly we want for him to succeed and how many ways we facilitate that success, if he doesn’t want to do it, he will find any excuse not to follow through. Actions are the only way to measure progress (words and promises aren’t worth much), and he must follow through first. We love him and truly wish for him to thrive in life. It is heartbreaking to see the lows, but as long as we don’t compromise on our own well-being, we will continue supporting him on his journey to recovery. How have you all managed? How has addiction affected your life? Personally, I would love nothing more than to see some success stories to encourage others, but I know those are sometimes rare.

 

With the recent security concern with lemmy.world, someone recommended I enable 2FA. I checked the box on my web browser and a toast message instructed me to click a link below to complete the 2FA, but a link never appeared. I left my account settings and came back, and 2FA was not checked, so I assumed it just didn’t go through.

Except, I tried logging into another browser and it’s asking for my 2FA code. I cannot log in without it, and it is still showing as disabled on my account, so I don’t know how I can disable it again.

Any ideas? Can an admin disable that for an account?

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/396561

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(It looks like the vLemmy instance is no longer working, so I recreated the community here)

Hi everyone, my name is loopy and I created this lemmy community to make a space for people to share and support each other through the challenges of having a friend or family member struggling with addiction. As the sidebar says, this is not to replace therapy; think of it like an online support group. I’ll get the ball rolling a little bit by sharing that my BIL has been struggling with addiction. First to opioids, then to his Adderall prescription. The mood swings are an understatement. I get glimpses of sobriety but then the cycles continue. It honestly gets pretty exhausting to keep trying to have empathy only to be let down again.

My wife and my focus lately has been setting boundaries. He knows how to manipulate my wife, so I said that we all need to be present when deciding something (eg if he is staying at our house for the weekend). It feels uncomfortable for her, but it has been minimizing the stress. I have learned the valuable lesson of keeping yourself safe and well first. This is basically not possible for my wife to set this boundary with him, so my role has been a lot of reassurance and being consistent.

Another essential lesson we have discovered is to distinctly define roles. We are not therapists and cannot be a detox center. We have literally tried because he talked us into it.

The last recent thing we concluded is that the whole process has to be their decision. No matter how badly we want for him to succeed and how many ways we facilitate that success, if he doesn’t want to do it, he will find any excuse not to follow through. Actions are the only way to measure progress (words and promises aren’t worth much), and he must follow through first.We love him and truly wish for him to thrive in life. It is heartbreaking to see the lows, but as long as we don’t compromise on our own well-being, we will continue supporting him on his journey to recovery.

How have you all managed? How has addiction affected your life? Personally, I would love nothing more than to see some success stories to encourage others, but I know those are sometimes rare.

 

Friends and Family of Persons with Addiction (fafopwa)

An online support group for people to share experiences and resources, and give support to one another through the many challenges of having a friend/family member struggling with addiction.

It looks like the vlemmy domain is no longer active. I have recreated this community on the Lemmy.ee instance. The new link is:

[email protected]

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