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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Wheatkingsandprettythings 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I wouldn’t have a problem with sharing cancer awareness. But she’s only sharing breast cancer and the fact she’s using it for engagement is GROSS. I’m a survivor and when she told her kids she could have cancer: are you effing kidding me? That was the hardest moment of my damn life! And when my 5 year old found out on her own? HEARTBREAKING. If you’re reading this S, shame! Shame on you! Shame on someone who was once envious of a woman’s body who had cancer. Please just stop. You are damaging! You may think we’re all jealous and crazy. Trust me! I’m not! I love my life, I love that I’m alive for my kids. Please stop!

[–] 1hotpoetaytoe 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My younger sister is getting a mastectomy and implant in two weeks for ductal carcinoma stage 0. I call that a cancer scare!!! Depending on BRCA genetic testing results she may have to do both sides. I think after Birdbrain made a mockery of getting her exam I could not even hate follow her anymore. She was recording and basically goofing around the whole time. While there was a 1 in 8 chance someone in another room was getting the worst news of their life. I am due for my 6 month MRI as I am considered high risk and have to alternate MRI and ultrasounds every 6m due to family history and I am terrified every single time! I feel like a ticking time bomb. She made a joke of the whole process for engagement. I do not understand how this woman still has a “job”.

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I feel you girl! She is so toxic and needs to be banished from Instagram. Sending love and hugs xo

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[–] VirgoSnarker 20 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Only this idiot, who has no self identity and changes her personality every other day, would think it’s cute that her daughter is acting the same.

[–] Whaaambulence 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You’d think that would be a lightbulb to turd that her kid is actually interested in doing something more than sitting in front of a tv all day long. That’s actually so sad.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I wonder if this is 🍋’s 1st time back to a cheer comp since her epic meltdown that BirdShit couldn’t handle.

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[–] crownofgold6 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Her story about Lemon having the “zoomies” should’ve been a moment that a light went off in her head but as always, it’s just so cute and funny and more content for her. That should be an indication that the kid is locked up in the house ALL THE TIME (whether at home or NK’s house) and she deserves to spend some time outside of the house whether at school or in a program to get her energy out.

But S just uses it for content instead, she doesn’t realize how much that poor little girl deserves to be living a life outside of the home and making friends and having fun.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

She’s been hosting a lot lately? The lies that come out her mouth 😆 so full of shit.

[–] crownofgold6 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

God I’m so sick of her getting everything provided to her. Will never go to firehouse subs now.

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[–] Uterusofsteel 15 points 2 months ago

New face alert

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[–] Poofluencers 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

She is everywhere ruining everything. Why would anyone feature this fraud to talk about drug addiction. She literally makes things up or repeating sound bites. This is so gross.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 16 points 2 months ago

This delusional bitch thinks MP was her best friend. She knows absolutely f all about addiction. What an absolute joke of a human.

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[–] crownofgold6 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

this is a woman with 4 kids (one being only 4 that she spends zero real time with), in her pjs at 5pm and playing the sims. Make it make sense???!!!! Doesn’t need to cook dinner, interact with her child, do some chores. Nope done for the day and playing a computer game. Of course we all deserve down time but all she does is have down time!!! She has a real life and she’s plopped on the sofa at 5pm creating a fake life.

[–] FraudulentFruit1 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Does she need to get her nose checked out or am I losing my eyesight?

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[–] Whaaambulence 14 points 2 months ago

Maybe connect with your actual 14 year old…child…that you have…..

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[–] FraudulentFruit1 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Bird Shit’s dad trying to win Justin Pasutto’s latest contest with BestBuy! These bloody people have the $$$ go buy a TV. Sickening grifters.

[–] Glowpop 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

He is an engineer and worked for a multinational conglomerate for decades. How embarrassing and incredibly cheap ass, shell out the money you absolutely have on hand.

[–] Whaaambulence 14 points 2 months ago

He doesn't have any money because his wife is addicted to spending, just like their daughter. Except NK doesn't get all the freebies her daughter grifts

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[–] Whaaambulence 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

is it how we receive it, or who’s phone (filter) took it….? Guess which one she took….a day apart

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[–] FraudulentFruit1 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Can she not speak like a normal human. The performative over pronunciation is beyond annoying. The dent in her head is probably from being punched.

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[–] Poofluencers 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I’m trying to imagine what it would feel like to be ultra lazy everyday and then first thing in the morning proceeding to show off a bunch of free crap. How in the world did we get here? Greed I guess!

[–] crownofgold6 13 points 2 months ago

It’s so gross. And the way she was yelling her fake enthusiasm in the video with L getting crayons was sf obnixous.

[–] crownofgold6 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Oh boohoo, it’s cold out for poor Birdie while she’s in her warm car in a gifted winter jacket with a warm house to go home to. Poor thing :( you would think she’s new to Canada fps.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Omg ew. How much coverup does she wear??? It's all over her jacket collar. Nasty

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[–] Whaaambulence 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

She should use those empty calendars her and her team were working on, to set afire and keep her warm. Like what has she even done in the first 6 weeks of this year? A tone deaf daytrip to LA and back, her own vacation with friends, one event that didn't even require the hotel stay she had.....and...........a cheer comp for a day and superbowl party.........? Won't count L's bday that NK planned. Big boss babe.........

[–] crownofgold6 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Funny you bring up the calendars, what about that other calendar/organizer she HAD to buy from Costco? That hasn’t seen the light of day yet I’m sure

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[–] Richbynameonly 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Get wrecked you sack of shit. Of course your arms are tired. You never have to lift a fucking finger, ever!!! Unless it’s to scan your passport. And SHOCKER… poor prison child glued to the screen again.

[–] crownofgold6 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

So exhausting for her being a mom for an hour a day after NK does all the heavy lifting all day long 🙄

I’m sorry but the amount they watch this movie is out of control

[–] Glowpop 14 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Shane is a loser yes-dear robot at this point but imagine your partner asking you to film you lifting your child up a few times for social media content... what a sad life these two have created for themselves and their poor child

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[–] FraudulentFruit1 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

I feel like Bird’s back up plan is to get this kid into acting whether she likes it or not.

[–] Kar 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

OMG. You’re right. It won’t work cause she’s the least expressive preschooler I’ve ever seen, but I’m sure Bird will pull any strings she can to open doors.

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[–] Lisamarie 14 points 2 months ago

The stories that were related to this one really bothered me too!! Poor L. is stuck at home watching whole boxes of free items being opened as though she’s actually interested in any of it as a 4 year old! She’s treated like a prop for the sack of shit’s idiotic videos! I can’t stand it. I would love her to just be able to be a kid and go skating/dance lessons/soccer whatever L. wants to do! Make some friends her own age, etc. I don’t see how that vapid twit S. can’t understand that her little girl needs those things. Makes me so angry! S. is a selfish, shitty person!

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[–] Poofluencers 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Love how the woman who avoids being an engaged mom goes from it’s too cold to play outside with my toddler to I’m gonna organize the bathroom. Why couldn’t she do a craft or bake some cookies with L. But then it wasn’t actually about L at all - her rant was about HER being inside for days, HER being too cold and HER activity is organizing. She’ll be on the couch in 5 min doing nothing or maybe pretending to stir something in a pot. What an idiot, what lame content - it’s called Family Day go be a mom.

[–] Whaaambulence 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Too cold to play outside with a toddler, but not cold enough to wear a bikini outside in the snow for desperate content. Pathetic excuse for a mother.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

When you make your bff’s kids bday all about you 🤡

[–] Whaaambulence 15 points 2 months ago

If you look up the definition of narcissist, there's her picture. She's unreal

[–] Poofluencers 14 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Thought the same!!! And then the following slides trying to do the same with breast cancer - her scare and reminder to take care of it quickly. Remember S suddenly getting her screening within a week when other woman wait months, imagine if we all had Her magic. I think a whole new category of narcissist needs to be defined for this bitch.

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[–] Richbynameonly 15 points 2 months ago (7 children)

For the love of Christ. This poor child is talking to her own shadow and these imbecile sack of shit parents see nothing wrong with this?!?! 🤯

[–] VirgoSnarker 16 points 2 months ago

“How is she real” 🙄 They treat her like she isn’t!!!

[–] ThatOrangeBird 16 points 2 months ago

She had to find someone to actually listen to her. I'm sure the shadow interacts with her more than her mother who never puts down her fucking phone.

[–] crownofgold6 15 points 2 months ago

I was coming to follow up on my post with this!!! I legit said outloud while watching this “this poor kid needs some friends” jfc it’s so depressing and Sarah thinks it’s so cute and funny.

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[–] Richbynameonly 14 points 2 months ago

You spelled every day activities wrong

[–] crownofgold6 14 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Little miss body confident yet sucking in for dear life 🙄 and I’m sorry but this pose looks dumb af lol

[–] Richbynameonly 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Body positivity ladies! So let’s fill our lips with filler and Botox the hell out of our faces under the guise of “migraines” and let’s have ratchet fake horse hair extensions and let’s get our eyebrows tattooed on… am I missing anything?

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